Hi everyone
I'm new here and want to say hi and get some advice.
I had tongue flap and a neck dissection 5 weeks ago, have radiotherapy and chemo starting next week but am panicking about having the mask on for 15 mins, just about managed the 5 mins during the CT Scan on Monday. How did you cope?
Also, how long does the face and neck numbness last?
Thanks Dee
Hi Dee
There are several people on the forum who have reported the same concerns about keeping the mask on for so long. They have been advised to ask to have eye holes cut in it and apparently this has worked well. They have also taken along their own play list of music and asked for this to be played and this has helped also. Some have practised going to their happy place and concentrating on that e.g. your favourite spot on the beach which is what I used to do.
In relation to the neck and face numbness. With me I found that it decreased over time but never went away completely. It may be different for others. I am just used to it now and don't often notice it unless I really think about it. It has become part of my new normal.
You've got this Dee you will be fine.
Best wishes
Lyn
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Sophie66
Hi Dee I had 35 radiotherapy sessions I wasn’t in for that long I took my own playlists in and rarely lasted longer than 3 tracks average around 8-10 mins. I also visualised my favourite places to go for s bike ride or a walk in my head. I practised at home laid on the bed and put music on closed my eyes snd visualised beach walls bike rides etc. it does goes quickly I asked the team to talk to me as well. Give me a countdown to last few minute. Have you eyeholes cut out I recommend if not ask for them I watched the linear accelerators go round as well. Once a week tge session was s bit longer if they needed to scan but not 15 mins.
Can’t help with numbness sorry didn’t have op.
good luck
Hazel x
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Hi Dee,
Welcome to the group.
In terms of coping with the mask for radiotherapy, I have chronic anxiety issues, including agoraphobia. I thought I wouldn't be able to cope with the mask.
Several things helped me:
1. Tell the radiotherapists how you are feeling and they will keep a special eye on you and remind you that they will stop the treatment anytime you raise your hand.
2. Ask them to talk you through the process (you may need to remind them in each session). Tell them exactly what you need to hear. For me, it was "half way through, now", "only 1 minute left" etc. I did have one guy that talked me through in detail, like an airline pilot "... and now you will hear the machine moving from your left ear, to your right ear..."!!
3. When you are at home, relax and visualise the process and think "this is so easy... I can do this... I accept the treatment... each session is making me more healthy" etc.
4. During sessions, visualise a happy place and time. For me, it was running on a beach with my dog and snuggling her.
5. Keep your eyes closed. For me, I didn't want to have eye holes in the mask and to see the machine moving. I just wanted to tune out and let it happen. This is different for everyone...
I got through my 35 sessions. There were many days when I was so relaxed that it was over, before I realised. A few more anxious days, but I used the tips above. I never had to raise my hand to stop a session, although I came close a couple of times.
Good luck
Steve
Diagnosed Feb 2023 with base of tongue cancer, oropharyngeal squamous cell carcinoma (OPSCC), HPV positive, staging: T4aN2CM0
How did you cope?
Eyeholes. Ask for eyeholes. I was busy looking all round me and watching the Linac go round and lost track of time.
Dani
Base of tongue cancer. T2N0M0 6 weeks Radiotherapy finished January 2019
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