Head and neck cancer

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My husband has recently been diagnosed with cancer in the neck, potentially in lymph nodes, primary unknown. He is very early weeks of diagnosis, has had MRI, CT, biopsies and just had a Panendoscopy and more biopsies. We await his appt next week following MDT discussion for results and treatment plan. I have read some of the stories on here and they are helpful thank you. Once treatment plan is decided upon we may have a clearer picture of where his journey will take us. One thing that does surprise me is that they cannot always find the primary cause. I had 6weeks radiotherapy last year so in some ways will be able to support him. I found the community support on Macmillan heloful at that time.

  • Hi Jax and welcome. Yes sometimes the primary evades detection. It could already have been dealt with by the body or it could be too small to find in a biopsy sample or a scan. 
    Some people end up having radiotherapy in a likely area or remain on watch and wait. 
    Peter here is on watch and wait. I’m sure he’ll be along soon with his story but meanwhile you could click on his name here and look at his profile. There’s a synopsis of what he’s been through. 

    Stick around. There’s lots of help and support here

    Oh and by the way I hope you’ve made a good recovery 

    Dani 

    Base of tongue cancer. T2N0M0 6 weeks Radiotherapy finished January 2019

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  • Hi Jax welcome from me as well. When you’ve  got hubbys plan let us know we are here to help each other.. Oral  cancers can present with unknown primary’s it’s not common but can happen as Dani says. 
    Hope you are ok now after your  radiotherapy I know if at least 2 other couples one who went through treatment together and one was the year after her husband Both with  different cancers. 
    Hazel x

    Hazel aka RadioactiveRaz 

    My blog is www.radioactiveraz.wordpress.com  HPV 16+ tonsil cancer Now  6 years  post treatment. 35 radiotherapy 2 chemo T2N2NM.Happily getting on with living always happy to help

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  • Hi Jax and welcome from me too.

    You'll find the people on the forum helpful and supportive so just shout if you need to.

    Good luck at the meeting this week.

    Linda x

  • Hi Jax and welcome from me.  Sorry I've been away on the boat for almost a week and using my phone to look at the site - so missed yours and many other posts!!

    As Dani says my first 18 months or so was similar to what you are describing for your husband - at least the early stages. 

    You are right, once you have the treatment plan things will be a bit easier - at least you both know where you are going. 

    Although not much discussed on here but apparently a H&N CUP is not uncommon, but not frequent.  My primary (maybe it is, maybe it is not!!) was eventually found after 18 months and when they opened up my tongue as part of a panendoscopy biopsy apparently it was the size of a grain or rice.  Hence never showing on the scans.  By the time I went in for a partial glossectomy the tumour had disappeared once again.  Having said the "primary" was tiny the initial presentation was a very large lymph node with secondary HPV+ cancer in it.

    I only had surgery, no RT.

    Fast forward to now, and it is 2 2/3  years since I first found the lump, and I am living life to the fullest.  Every chance your husband will be doing that as well.

    In the event nothing shows for the primary there is a CUP forum on here, but it is little used.  Probably best to ask on this forum as there are one or two active people with CUP experience.

    Peter
    See my profile for more details of my convoluted journey