Morning folks!
I need help...
Scared is not the word right now. I’m starting treatment, (chemo week one and five, along with radiotherapy every day for seven weeks) tomorrow and I have been hit with the fear of so many side effects I really am more scared of that than the treatment. I have been advised with the radiotherapy being so close to my eye I could lose upto 70% vision, the risk to my teeth is extremely high so I’m using fluoride toothpaste, rinse and a guard and I’m going to losing my eye browns lashes and hair patches. I have cried so much it’s unbelievable. All I want is someone to tell me something positive. I know it all sounds superficial as I am alive and they are saving my life, however I’m very much by myself on this journey and too be told all the side effects makes me feel so anxious.
Any positive experiences or advice would be appreciated, it’s hard to stay strong.
x
Hello Nightsky! Welcome to the group. I'm really sorry you're having to go thru this but u are in good hands with all these wonderful good good people on here. There's loads of info and support from the folks on here so ask all u need and want.
I was diagnosed with snuc in September 2019, after 3 rounds of TPF chemo, 35 sessions of radiotherapy with cisplatin combined, I got the all clear last June!
It's gona be tough Nightsky, my radiotherapy was aimed between my eyes, beside my eyes and my nose and neck. I lost all my hair thru chemo but the radiotherapy took my lashes and brows. Brows have almost grew back, I've got a half one and a third one lol, but that's easily filled in with all the pencils and whatnot available. My lashes are coming very very slowly and I have continual burny watery eyes.... I still have very very little saliva and no smell or taste. But I haven't lost any teeth! And that's after a year with no saliva! Plus I'm still here!
Just take 1 day at a time Nightsky, ask for everything u feel u need help with. Its perfectly normal to feel terrified and frightened, you're entering the unknown but come on here and chat, these people helped me so much after treatment (I didn't know this site existed till after I'd gotten the all clear) so there's loads of people who have been thru it and know what they're talking about!
Take care Nightsky, you've got this
Hey Sophie....thanks for that (and sorry for hijacking the thread
Hope you are keeping well.
Dani
Base of tongue cancer. T2N0M0 6 weeks Radiotherapy finished January 2019
Hi Tanya
thanks for sharing your story as it helps others suffering from similar symptoms.
can I ask pls, what helped you with nose blockage? My husband has nasal and sinus cancer and has had radiotherapy and chemo but 4 weeks later his nose is being blocked we believe it’s due to dried up mucus.. did you have this and if so what did you do to relieve this ?
sorry to ask but I am trying to find something that will help my husband with this side affect so he can breath a bit better.
thanks you for any advice you may be able to give xx
And hope you are getting better ️
Good evening,
I hope your husband is well and coping with the side effect’s, it isn’t easy.
To be honest I had to go in for another op at the end of November and my scar tissue over healed and my nasal passage became blocked so with the regards to the mucus I improved then went back a step. I have discovered using a nasal wash helps, I use .
this one a couple of times a day and you will be shacked at what comes out.
I hope this helps, take care.
Regards,
Naomi
Hi there, this thread popped up in my emails, I hope u don't mind me butting in lol.
Naomi is spot on regarding the neti pot, I couldn't be without mine. I use a measuring jug filled with water and a slightly larger neti pot which is a squeezable bottle. I prefer the squeezable bottle as I can get a really good gush of water up my nose and I'll get 3 fills from the measuring jug. This will definitely clear out his nose and sinuses. If he doesn't get any relief then I'd speak to his consultant, he should be getting the camera up his nose every 2 months?
There's also a machine called sinupulse elite, its expensive but the company told me where a neti pot is like a garden hose the sinupulse elite is like a power hose.... I haven't tried it as my own neti pot works for me.
Hope this helps!
Dee
Hi Dee
thank you for the advice, we do have the sinus nasal bottle rinse and it only works for a bit but never fully clears, it’s like it the mucus turns into crust at night and in the morning when he does another rinse it won’t come out. We will speak to the oncologist if it does not get better as it can be very frustrating for him.
thank you for your help x
Hi Asettle, has he tried putting olive oil in the neti pot? I tried that and the inside of my nose felt lovely and moisturised. I've heard people talking about white vinegar also but I haven't tried that.
It is very frustrating, it's really about getting used to this new normal.... but he will get there, once he gets a handle on what works best for him.... but def try the olive oil and if he's getting a good powerful skoosh from the neti pot then he's doing everything he can and it might be time to speak to the oncologist.
Hang in there
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