Hi I just wanted to update the price who have supported me
Firstly I apologise for the lack of being on here for the last few weeks
We came to the end of my husband's journey last week after him contracting a chest infection and spending his final 3 weeks in hospital
He was operated on 2 days after being diagnosed with a chest infection and never recovered
I'm lost I feel things should of been done differently but there's nothing that will give me my beautiful man back
We had been given 6-12 months at diagnosisi in September but ended up with 2 month's and 7 days
In that short time we managed to get married and have a little over Iggy break away
But I still feel robbed
Sharon
so sorry to hear your devastating news, please don't apologise for not being here. I remember you posting from the beginning.
You have been in the worst of places, both of you.
I am so glad that at least you two were married and you can keep that in your heart even though it is desperately inadequate.
There is a Bereaved Partners section if you feel that might help
Dani
Base of tongue cancer. T2N0M0 6 weeks Radiotherapy finished January 2019
Thankyou
I'll have a look at that as although I have family I don't feel they understand what I'm feeling
I think they all think I'm a bit mad but I know what I saw and I know there was mistakes and I can't get away from that
As I said there's nothing I can do now and I did try at the time to tell them but they wouldn't listen
I don't believe the cancer took him
I think an error with a Ng tube did
So saddened to hear this Bella , please do not apologise as you have been through so much in a short space of time, so pleased you managed to get married and have a little break. Thinking of you at this difficult time, take care.
Chris x
Sharon, So sorry to hear your sad news, thank you for taking time out to post on the forum.
I do hope you can get some answers to your questions about your hubby’s treatment Am sure your family will be there for you. When you are ready your hospital should have a PALS service for you to follow up your concerns.
Thinking of you at this difficult time
Hazel x
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