Hi there, I have tonsil cancer and I'm in the midst of my treatment of 2 chemo sessions and 35 radiotherapy. My second chemo was 5 days ago and my ability to eat ( and drink) has really deteriorated in the last 24 hours.
At the clinic today I was told I'd now lost 6% of my weight and they are going to try me on a different type of supplement drink (to be collected tomorrow) as the first ones they gave me I really struggled to get down - and eventually gave up.
Everything is making me gag, even water, so, obviously I have no desire to try and eat, although I know I must. I have only managed about 3 dessertspoons of rice pudding and 4-5 peach slices and some Lucozade today. I did better yesterday, but after my breakfast this morning, Ready Brek, came straight back up, all the retching and gagging has really put me off.
And now I've just read that it could be 6 weeks after treatment before anything improves, so that's another 8 weeks of this.
Does anyone have any hints or tips, or can anyone offer me any hope?
Hi Houditoo and a warm welcome.
This is quite a problem for a lot of us and I personally suffered with a lot of nausea
Luckily (sic) you are still in treatment so you can ask your radiographers and chemo nurses for help
Are you on any anti nausea medication? I know you do get things with chemotherapy but some drugs are better than other.
Have they not offered you a nasogastric tube?
Mine was a life saver as everything went down it for weeks and I managed to lose very little weight at all through treatment
I'd be straight back to them asking for one. It takes a few minutes to get down and the process is unpleasant only fleetingly. I'm amazed you've got this far without one. You need lots of good quality protein and calories to heal properly. 3000 a day is not overdoing it.
Please ask.
Hazel RadioactiveRaz will be along soon I guess to chip in. We both lend a little extra support on a small WhatsApp group to fellow sufferers and we are helping one lady in particular who got into a real pickle without proper nutrition.
Best of luck and let us know how you get on
Dani
Base of tongue cancer. T2N0M0 6 weeks Radiotherapy finished January 2019
And it does get better
Morphine is pretty rubbish for making you feel sick too....are you on enough laxative to cope with the morphine?
How much mucous do you have? A lot can make you gag. If there's a lot maybe a nebuliser might help and you might ask your team for some Carbocysteine which is a mucous thinning drug available on prescription
Dani
Base of tongue cancer. T2N0M0 6 weeks Radiotherapy finished January 2019
Hi this is Hazel aka Radioactiveraz I am 27 month post treatment for tonsil cancer with several affected lymph nodes. I too had 35 radiotherapy sessions and 2 out of a planned 3 chemo sessions. I agree with everything Dani aka Beesuit has already said. Get to see your dieticians have they not mentioned n g feeding tube ? You need to be able to get hydrated and nutrition into you. Yes in a wzy tecivery can be harder than the treatment everything is still working away in you. It is a case of hunkering dien most important kerp on top of painkillers and of course laxatives. Are you taking enough painkillers I was in 6 ibuprofen 8 x30 mg cocodomol snd uo to 40 mil of oramorph. Yes it’s hard but if I can do it anyone can Eat I g can be problematic fir a giid while but you do learn to adapt . I have a blog details below it may help you. I also had a humidifier nebulisers and carbusistine for the dreaded mucus.
Aany questions just ask wecare a tight knit grouo on here.
hazel xx
Hazel aka RadioactiveRaz
My blog is www.radioactiveraz.wordpress.com HPV 16+ tonsil cancer Now 6 years post treatment. 35 radiotherapy 2 chemo T2N2NM.Happily getting on with living always happy to help
2 videos I’ve been involved with raising awareness of HNC and HPV cancers
Thank you for your advice.
I'm currently not taking any pain killers. I don't want to be show-off but I weirdly have no pain when swallowing at the moment (5 days now!) I'm sure it will reappear at some point.
My eating problem (at the moment) is due to the salty gloop that is constantly in my mouth, that seems to increase whenever I try food or drinks. It is making anything I try to swallow taste like thick sea water and just makes me gag.
Having said that, today I have managed peaches, rice pud and crackers with cheese spread. Lucozade is the least offensive liquid to drink at the moment. The slight fizz seems to clear the gloop of my tongue.
Once in situ, how awful is the NG tube? Yesterday I was pretty close to giving in and saying just shove it in, but then today my SALT said it was better if I tried my hardest to avoid it. Does it hamper recovery time?
So many questions...
SALT said what?
I’m amazed at that.
Proper nutrition encourages speedy healing and a nasogastric tube enables that proper nutrition.
You can’t feel it in situ
I had mine in from my third week of treatment till around six weeks post.
I bet your SALT team are popular with the dieticians.
Where are you being treated?
Dani
Base of tongue cancer. T2N0M0 6 weeks Radiotherapy finished January 2019
Hi n g tube couldn’t feel it fir me it didn’t hinder recovery if anything it aided recivery took away the worry of eating drinking and meds. Mjns was in fir 6 weeks out week 3 of recovery flew to Spain in week 8 and rode my bike week 10 . Without the n g tube I am sure recivery would be longer. I woukd speak to dieticians not SLT team but we are all different.
te the gloop have you a nebuliser ? Try soda water as well as that cuts through the gloop
Hope this helps hazel
Hazel aka RadioactiveRaz
My blog is www.radioactiveraz.wordpress.com HPV 16+ tonsil cancer Now 6 years post treatment. 35 radiotherapy 2 chemo T2N2NM.Happily getting on with living always happy to help
2 videos I’ve been involved with raising awareness of HNC and HPV cancers
Try soda water as well as that cuts through the gloop
Diet ginger ale is supposed to be good too
Dani
Base of tongue cancer. T2N0M0 6 weeks Radiotherapy finished January 2019
Hi Houditoo
I can understand why SALT would rather you tried to get through your treatment without the NG tube. My entire team were of the same opinion. It's not so much a matter of the NG tube prolonging the recovery period but that they're of the opinion that to continue to eat helps to keep your swallow function operating.
I didnt have a feeding tube during rt and I did lose a lot of weight but just about managed to get to the end without having one fitted. I'm sure the dieticians would step in and take the appropriate action if they thought you're losing too much weight and it's in your best interest. They were certainly on the verge of doing so with me.
Have you had any advice from your team about the mucus and sickness? I was extremely fortunate that mucus wasn't a side effect I had a huge amount of trouble with but my father in law did when he was having treatment and found a nebuliser was a great help.
I really wish you all the best with your continued treatment.
Linda x
I can understand why SALT would rather you tried to get through your treatment without the NG tube. My entire team were of the same opinion. It's not so much a matter of the NG tube prolonging the recovery period but that they're of the opinion that to continue to eat helps to keep your swallow function operating.
Hi Linda
that's really interesting and just illustrates how different hospitals put a different emphasis on recovery.
Maintaining your ability to swallow is crucial
My symptoms came crashing down over a weekend at the end of three weeks treatment and my support team assured me that if I did my swallowing exercises as instructed it made no difference how I was fed.
I have had absolutely no trouble swallowing after recovery but you hear some people have significant stenosis.
One wonders whether severe muscle fibrosis would have occurred anyway.
The pre treatment placing of stomach tubes was routine in many places before Covid.
I wonder how we are to make an informed decision?
Dani
Base of tongue cancer. T2N0M0 6 weeks Radiotherapy finished January 2019
Well I've had a tube put in.
I did feel a bit like I had to give a reasoned debate as to why I thought it was best for me (kind of odd when it is something you would really rather not have).
Anyway, a bit uncomfortable going in but, once the guide wire was out it, it's not so bad at all. But the relief is immense. I'm not stressed about trying to shovel enough food in orally now, and that was really getting to me.
My team have sold it more as a supplementary way of feeding and have said I should try my best to still eat and drink every day.
So, fingers crossed, this will get me over the final hurdle, into single figures now, 9 sessions to go...
Thank you for you help and encouragement. I'm at the Leeds Cancer Centre, their care has been brilliant.
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