Hi Everyone, I have just been diagnosed with oesophageal cancer. I have had blood tests, X rays, endoscopy CT scan and PET scan and now waiting for a loan of action. My consultant says it can be cured, although I realise there are no guarantees. He said I will have chemo, followed by an operation then more chemo.
I am trying to stay strong, but after many years of eating ‘healthy’ ( low fat everything, lots of fresh fruit and veg) my husband, in particular, is finding it very hard to get his round butter, cream etc. he is also determined to keep me fit by dragging me off for long walks. I appreciate he is scared and anxious to do the right thing, but I’m still trying to get my head round this and don’t want to argue.
My adult children have enough in their plates and me best friend died of cancer earlier this year, so I’m feeling very alone.
I am determined to beat this as I want to see my grandchildren grow up, so I’m hoping I will find success stories on here
Thankyou
SuzieW, try and do as much of the pre op physio as you can, especially the breathing exercises. They had my husband doing an exercise where he had to sit on a chair with his arms crossed around his body and then he had to stand up and sit down as many times as he could in 30 seconds. It wasn't until after the op he realised how much that exercise had helped him getting out of bed or a chair. Try and keep your weight up. Walking is key, before and after the op, even if it's just a little bit, it all helps. Be positive. 
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