Hi everyone,
I have a particular question about chemo, and we'd love some insight from someone that has gone through what my dad is about to deal with. Short version of the story is very similar to so many I think - late stage diagnosis, and we are not on a curative pathway. Dad has a NJ feeding tube fitted, and is due to start chemo (EOX) very soon.
We are a bit worried about how the feeding tube will manage the chemo, however. Our background is that he's had lots of problems with partial blockages which are incredibly difficult to deal with - frequently we can get water to go down, but the pump won't push feed down. Often we are able to use the pump 24 hours after the original blockage, but it's not great for routine and causing huge amounts of stress with covid etc. No chance of getting a replacement tube in the near future.
We wonder whether particulate matter build-up from his dissolvable paracetamol is causing the problem. As dad will be having to take his capecitabine dissolved in water down the tube, we would just like to see if anyone else on here has dealt with a similar problem, how easy they found the capecitabine to dissolve, and any other tips/insights that anyone could give. We are receiving mixed responses to our questions, but would really appreciate first hand experience!
Thanks very much
Hello bracken28,
I noticed that your post has so far gone unanswered, I am sorry about that. It must be terribly difficult to get mixed responses with regards to your questions, I however do not have any experience of the current conditions that your Dad is going through, other than my husband being diagnosed with oesophageal cancer, palliative care, no feeding tube but currently on FLOT and Herceptin. This week is the first fortnight that he has not received any treatment since May 22nd (a rest break for new year)
I don't feel that I am able to offer you any first hand experience but I am sure there will be others who will be along soon who may have had some similarities in their treatment.
Wishing your Dad every success with the upcoming treatment, and hoping that the feeding tube issues will soon be resolved.
Lowe'
how are things going with the NG tube i know when i had mine it was horrible i hated the thing ,it was so bad i told the doctor 1 day if you dont put a PEG into my tummy i am going to pull the NG tube out ,they then did it and was so much better for feeding and less chance of blocking ,also i would think your chemo would be IV not thru NG
Hi Rustylee,
It's been a chaotic few days since dad started chemo - he had a bad reaction, and the nausea was so bad that taking the capecetabine orally just wasn't an option, so he's skipped that for this round. While he was in hospital for the vomiting, the gastro team managed to persuade him to have a stent inserted, so that got put in yesterday. He's in a LOT of pain, but hoping that settles soon and that he'll be able to have a better quality of life, it really was so draining on him. Bit of a rollercoaster but at least we don't have to worry about tube blockages for a while!
I have/had hopefully its gone now T3 N2 M0 since April 6th 2019 - had a stomach rig since September 5th 2020 had it taken out yesterday - radiotherapy finished Oct 20th and chemo Nov 22nd 2020 when you say stent has your Dad had a rig put in his stomach - if that is the case I can say it improved my quality of life a lot - i lost a lot of weight during radiotherapy 79kg to 67kg - my wife was my carer 24*7 and helped with water and Fortisip/Ensure we made sure we kept it clean and flushed with water after feeding - its a full time job so I wish you well with that - it does get emotional - if you want to talk more let me know
John
Hi John
Great of you to share part of your journey here, rough as the journey can be, it is really important that we can read others experiences, good and bad, (well, for me it is anyway ) My husband has not been offered radiotherapy, he is on chemo and about to go on to maintenance only treatment, his prognosis (when last updated) was not great, but he is doing really well and hopefully he can beat said prognosis by many years.
I hope that you are correct in so much as "you had" I hope you are recovering well and you will be willing to share more of your journey here for other. (maybe consider updating your profile....for nosey people like me, this is a great source of information )
Keep up the good work and a massive Well Done to your Wife.
Lowe'
Hi John
Thank you for taking the time to get in touch, it is so appreciated and sorry for my slow reply - it's been a difficult week.
Dad had talked about a rig, but it was decided to put a stent in to widen his esophagus instead. It's been a mixed bag - he was in a lot of pain all week, and continued to lose so much weight, but has started to be able to eat soft foods such as weetabix and custard. You are so right about the emotional aspect - there is so much we are unable to control on the cancer road, just being able to get good nutrition is so important.
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