I had not been feeling too well feeling sick, no appetite, tired short of breath and just generally not right.
I went to see one of our GPs who knows my history of BC nd told her I was worried that it had come back.
she arranged bloods and all looked ok.
about a month later still not feeling right and more breathless I saw a different GP who just looked at my blood results and said I was fine.
I have seen this GP now for the last 4/5 months while she has tried different meds for a supposed chest infection which showed up after a chest x ray.
jump forward to this week after at last being sent for a ST scan I have found out my cancer has raised its ugly head and is showing slightly in my liver and one of my lymph nodes. No mention of my lungs.
I have a appointment with my BC team on the 28th of December.
to get to the point I am really feeling scared this time and am worried that it might be too late for any treatment to work after the doctors leaving things do long.
when I had chemo, operation and radiotherapy and sepsis twice I felt in control but this time feel like everything is out of my control and I don't know if I have the energy to go through all that again
sorry for going on but can anyone give me anything to put my mind at ease.
Hi Kazash,
I know how scary it is, but once you're on treatment again hopefully you'll feel a bit more in control again. The waiting is the worst part.
There are so many treatments out there now that some oncologists think of secondary breast cancer more as a chronic disease.
I imagine they'll want a biopsy to re-check receptors etc. Then you should be good to start treatment.
All the best, and good luck.
Andy
Thank you for answering..
I am so scared just now and can't get it out of my head that it had been left too late to do anything.
I am short of breath all the time especially when climbing stairs etc.
If I feel so bad now how am I going to deal with the treatment of there is anything that can be done.
My head is all over the place at the moment and I can't see any light at the end of the tunnel.
Same happened with my wife, despite specialist saying it won't come back. Secondary cancer is so overlooked yet it is so prevalent. 4 years now and she is still here thankfully, but don't despair as there are lots of treatments and more on their way, Stay strong and thoughts are with you. Xx
Thank you for the positive thoughts,
glad your wife is doing well . Xx
Hi, I was diagnosed with secondary breast cancer in March 2021. Like yourself I visited my gp a few times as I was coughing a lot. To cut the story short I was eventually diagnosed with secondary breast cancer in my lungs. I am being treated with letrozol, imbrance and bone strengthening injections.. To date I'm doing well. Scans stable and treatment tolerable. Hope this helps you, and in fact I am doing this whilst spending Xmas in Madeira. So keep going, don't give up and hopefully you will get the correct treatment to control your cancer. Good luck
Hi Muste it took a lot of time and phone calls to obtain travel quotes. I would not recommend doing on line as questions can be ambiguous so it's better to talk to a person. I found an annul policy for Europe, it is expensive but I am trying to go ad many times as possible as its what me and hubby like doing now we are retired. I felt at first it was taken away from me as it took a long time to get a policy but I'm tenacious if nothing else. I cleared it with my consultant who had no objections and continued treatment whilst away as it is tablet form. So I suppose it depends on the individual. I Hope you manage to get away, just be a bit more careful in what you eat etc to avoid any illnesses. Good luck.
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