Hi there, I'm one of the champions here in this group and I just wanted to acknowledge your post. It's such a difficult decision to make. I wondered if you'd thought about giving the lovely folks at the Macmillan helpline a call as I’m sure they'd be able to help you think through the pros and cons of the options. You can call them on 0800 808 0000 from 8am to 8pm daily. Best wishes
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