I lost my husband in December 2024 suddenly and unexpectedly after being together for 48 years, I am totally devastated. I am 69 years of age.
I have just been diagnosed with a 4cm - 6cm Lobular Invasive Cancer. The cancer has not spread to the lymph nodes and the specialist has advised me that the cancer is curable.
My operation will take place on 17th September 2025.
I have 3 options to choose from:
a) Lumpectomy leaving a 34b cup against 34g cup. The specialist has advised me that he cannot be sure if he will get all of the cancer out due to size and location and may require a further operation - this is not an option for me.
b) Mastectomy and reconstruction at the same time giving me a 34d cup. With the option of reducing my right breast to a 34d cup when all treatment has finished on the cancerous breast. There is a risk with this operation as with any other operation. My body could reject the implant and all other related problems with this procedure. This will delay any chemo/radiotherapy if needed.
c) A mastectomy and no reconstruction. With the option to have reconstruction on both breasts in 12 - 18 months time if I want it.
They do not know if I will need chemo/radiotherapy until the tumour is out and has been analysed.
I go back to the consultant on the 12th September 2025 to give him my decision.
Option b) is a new option given to me by the consultant on the 5th September 2025. Can anybody please give me some help and advice about the pro's and con's of this option. Should I just have the mastectomy and then when all treatment is finished then consider reconstruction options.
Any advice with your own cancer journey would be most welcome to help me decide.
I am in a very fragile position and do not know what to do.
Thank you in advance.
