My oncologist has refused to give me a stage instead using the TNM score, this makes me wonder what they're not telling me.
I had 2 invasive breast cancers and 2 dcis in my left breast and a mastectomy 6 months ago. It is also grade 3 her2 and er positive.
I guess I assumed it was stage 1 as the tumours were small, 1 cm but they haven't said the size of the other one and it hadn't spread to the lymph nodes but good old Dr Google comes back stage 2.
I also got anaphylactic shock both times they gave me docetaxol and are now refusing to give me chemotherapy as that was the only drug that my cancer responded to. I was considered borderline for radiotherapy but again they have refused that.
Is it normal to not get a stage and is Dr Google likely correct?
Also I'm worried about follow up once my treatment finishes as I also read that it's more likely to reoccur in the same breast and they obviously can't do a mammogram on that. I read that an ultrasound isn't normally given on the NHS but wonder if they would make an exception in my case?
I have also been googling conjugated monoclonal antibodies and wonder if that is available on the NHS, it is very expensive but may not be approved in the UK.
I don't find the nurses very helpful, not getting back to me or phoning days later and not giving me straight answers.
I would be grateful for any opinions.
TIA
It might just be that your surgeon doesn't bother with the stage. I was just told early stage and looked up staging on Macmillan.
If you want to speak to someone, if no-one here has any opinions as it's probably unusual to have such reactions, then you could try ringing Macmillan to ask advice. Telephone Number: 0800 808 00 00
By answering, I've also bumped your query back to page 1 as it had slipped to page 2.
Kindest Wishes, Lesley
Hi rubywednesday1
I wasn't given staging either - I get the impression now that the emphasis is more on the biology of the tumour rather than the size etc but don't quote me on that. Macmillan would be great to ask as suggested above, but Dr Liz O'Riordan has an interesting video on Youtube about staging and how it has changed over recent years. Sorry you've had such a tough time with treatment, hope you get any answers you're looking for soon. I'm off to look up conjugated monoclonal antibodies! xx
My breast care nurse told me they don't really worry about staging anymore. They are mostly concerned about the grade and whether it is hormone positive. These factors (along with size and node involvement) are usually what are considered when deciding on the treatment plan.
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