So in September last year I had a lumpectomy and then had eight rounds of chemo with two weeks of radiotherapy which finished at the beginning of April, the consultant, although they didn’t do a scan, said the lumpectomy gave clear margins, and there was no reason to believe that the chemo and the radio didn’t work so I was cancer free.
However, this week I’ve been diagnosed with a brain tumour and they are saying the likelihood of me having another primary cancer is rare so they think it must be secondary and therefore my cancer has come back. It seems hard to believe to me. Has anyone else been in this situation?
i’m still waiting on scans so don’t know anything for certain yet and know all of this is speculation but anyone’s experience would be gratefully received
None of us know what we have inside us. How they decide who gets treatment and who gets scans is a bit random. They have all the explanations but still doing at least one scan per person would be useful.
Sorry to read that about your secondaries. Trying to get on with life now, just in case but hormone blockers have depleted my energy.
Hi Coddfish yeah it does seem a bit random dependent on where you live in the country. It’s a shame the NHS isnt all linked up and everyone gets the same treatment..
oh, I feel your pain with sea hormone blockers. I’m also on Tamoxifen. It’s absolute torture the night sweats are not fun at all.
hope it gets better for you
Hi Sabrina22 thank you I’m really praying but I know that some brain tumours can’t be treated so there’s allsorts going through my mind at the moment.
The NHS is marvellous in some cases, but this is a classic example of when it’s not. You shouldn’t have to force someone to look into issues like epilepsy etc it’s just not fair you have to fight so much. I can’t even tell you how many phone calls I’ve made this week just trying to get somebody to answer my questions because I’ve not been allocated a consultant yet it’s just awful nobody phones you back you just have to fight and fight and fight. I hope your son gets the treatment and answers he needs all the best XXX
Hi Shellbell24,
I am so sorry you find yourself in this horrible situation.
I am currently going through a similar process at the moment with a small local, probable, recurrence being found which developed while on targeted treatment. With a few aches and pains going on I am currently having various scans to see what is happening elsewhere in my body as high risk of metastases.
Like yourself, I have found NHS not always great , having detected my cancer early myself and then having to wait over 4 months before treatment started. It seems very erratic across the different Trusts.
I wish you all the very best and hope that you soon have a consultant allocated to you and that you have an effective treatment plan in place quickly .
Love and hugs to you while you wait.
Hi there, and sorry you have news we all half expect at any time:(
I'm guessing it was de novo, and the chemo didn't pass the blood brain barrier? Did you have lymphovascular invasion, as it could have spread that way. Fingers crossed a plan is sorted out quickly, and you start treatment soon as the wait is terrible. xxx
Yes I am on immunotherapy (Pembrolizumab) plus more chemo
I am very sorry to hear that you are dealing with metastatic disease now. That triple negative is an aggressive one. I have seen on YouTube survivors that are 20 years post metastatic BC so the treatments are improving. I agree that you probably already had metastatic BC from the start. I am sending all my best wishes and prayers your way.
I have a booklet about triple negative BC and there is a drug that was used in the Ascent study called Trodelvy so your Dr may mention it.
Here in the US there is the triple negative breast cancer foundation web address is TNBC foundation.org and you may be able to access their site.
Barbara
Barbara
He is lucky I worked in the NHS all my working life, I keep going if I don't get the right response. He was referred to Guys last year and I didn't realise the person I saw wasn't a Doctor. She was what they call an Associate something or other, a mid point between and Nurse.
A prescription error occured on the letter she sent to his surgery. The thought she was a Consultant and they let it through. It was a massive increase in an anticonvulsant. It got all the way to a prescription but the pharmacist queried it. It prob would have killed him. I put a formal complaint in about that.
He is so vulnerable, I have to be vigilant. They maybe wait for the results to come in before allocating depending what type of tumour it is. I look up NICE GUIDELINES if I need to check things out. I hope you are seen soon to give you some answers.
Hope and prayers for you.
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Thanks Barbara. I have PD-L1 positive TNBC and am currently on Pembrolizumab (Keytruda) plus NAB-Paclitaxel (Abraxane). I know the US tend to use the brand names, whereas the NHS in the UK use the underlying drug names. Pembro is a PD-L1 blocker. If that fails, I will move onto sacituzumab govitecan (Trodelvy). It’s meant to be a lot less bearable as a treatment so I rather hope I don’t need to go there.
HiLondonmumof2 I have no idea what any of that means! What’s de novo? & what’s lymphovascular invasion?!
I have an appt at kings london tomorrow so will find everything out then
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