Cancer back after 4 years

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Just found out that TNBC is back after 4 years.

Waiting for appointment for CT scan to see if it's spread beyond the breast.

My thoughts are all over the place.

Felt so bad having to tell my family yesterday, especially my 90 year old mother. She lost one of my brothers due to a brain tumour and  my other brother is in a home with advanced Alzheimer's Disease.

I'm the only one left. My grown up children live too far away to offer any practical support.

I feel for my husband who has enough on his plate already.

Don't even know what to write.

  • Hi , so sorry that you’re going through this and that you’re back on the ‘waiting for appointments and results’ rollercoaster. You already know all the stuff about ‘better once you know what you’re dealing with’ but the waiting is still tortuous. And it sounds like you and your family have a huge amount to deal with as it is. I hope your scan appointment comes through quickly and that the results are as good as they can be. Sending love and a big virtual hug your way, HFxx 

    HappyFeet1 xx
    Don’t be afraid to cry. It will free your mind of sorrowful thoughts. – Hopi
  • Hi Thank you ever so much for your encouraging words and virtual hug.

    Crying as I type.

    Xx

  • Hi cannyanni

    So sorry to hear your news, it must be so hard. Just let the tears flow, sometimes it helps. Remember you are amongst friends here and we will all be rooting for you.

    take care.

    Evajean x

  • Hi Cannyannie

    I'm so sorry to hear that your Triple negative breast cancer has returned.  Hopefully it hasn't spread beyond the breast and that you get your CT Scan soon.

    Wishing you the best of luck with your CT Scan when it happens.

    Best wishes

    Daisy53

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  • Hi  , thank you so much for your kind words.

    Take care 

    X

  • Hi , thank you for your kind words. They help a lot.

    Take care.

    X

  • Hello Cannyannie,  So sorry to read that you are on this cancer  path again.  I am sure your feelings are up and down right now and I am praying that your CT will be a positive report.  You’ll be amazed at how strong your Mom will be.  I was diagnosed last year and one person I wanted to talk to was my Mom but she passed years ago.  Always was able to comfort me.  
    Get your comfort from all those good people who are there for you and remember we are all rooting for you too.  
    There are new treatments too.  
    Barbara

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  • Hi , thank you ever so much for your kind words.

    So sorry to hear about your diagnosis and your Mom's passing.

    Sending you my best wishes.

    Ann x