Chemotherapy & surgery on your own ?

I had breast cancer twice, once married once divorced. Because my ex wasn’t supportive I can honestly say it was easier on my own. Friends could step in without worrying they were treading on his toes so I got more help in a practical sense, we had a rota to drive me to and from chemo and to help me walk my dog. When you can’t sleep you don’t have to worry about waking anyone up. I planned my meal making when I was well and filled the freezer so I could have it easier on bad weeks. I could rest without having to consider his feelings, I just got into a routine and got through. It’s very daunting at the beginning of your treatment but it somehow creates new routines and you just get through. All the best x