Hello all,
Grateful for this space. Still in the midst of diagnosis in order to formalise a treatment plan. I’m 37, at the moment we know I have non specific grade 2 breast cancer with another possible area of early cell changes. Ultrasound looks promising that there is no spread to lymph nodes but we won’t know for sure until after surgery. I’m nervously awaiting biomarker results. The first stage of treatment will either be a lumpectomy or mastectomy depending on pending results from a second biopsy. I really enjoy being active particularly martial arts, and pickleball. Very nervous for surgery and recovery, especially since it will mean being sidelined from the usual activities that I enjoy and are good for my physical and mental health. I know I am likely to get frustrated when progress is slow. I’m also worried about the impact this will have on my sweet wife - she is my best friend and so supportive but I know that this is going to have her just as emotionally drained as myself.
Doing my best to stay positive and take one day at a time. Grateful to be going back on anxiety meds.
Would love to hear stories of how people managed to regain upper body mobility and strength after surgery and through any treatments like radiation and chemo.
Whatever cancer throws your way, we’re right there with you.
We’re here to provide physical, financial and emotional support.
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