This is my very first posting.
It's 1 year ago today when that dreaded letter dropped through the letterbox! The day it came was on my 66th birthday and the day after I retired!!!. The letter was recalling me after a routine mammogram. I had to wait 2 weeks my mind was all over the place. My husband and I chose not to tell anyone until I had results from retest. Well halfway through the wait I was in a terrible state do spoke to my 2 sisters. They were very supportive telling me I would be fine. My appointment day had arrived. Second mammogram done then ultra scan followed by biopsy then bang the word cancer was said. I looked at my husband in tears he held me and told me that we got this. I was asked what questions I wanted to ask I said "none" just wanted to leave.
I went back a week later saw consultant. Who told me I needed to have a mastectomy (double whammy). I had this done on 23rd September 2025.
My family and friends have been amazing. Providing me with practical support and a shoulder to cry on.
I had food parcels delivered. Afternoon tea delivered. Flowers plants gifts in abundance.
I count myself lucky. My cancer was removed successfully no chemo no radiotherapy just letrazole tablet for 5/10 years.
I still suffer emotionally. I'm very anxious at the moment as I'm waiting for my yearly mammogram appointment.
Sorry if I've gone on to much but as I said it's my first post and it's only now that I felt I could share.
Hello,
Your story is almost identical to mine, except the part about the sisters, I dont have any sisters unfortunately.
I had a left mastectomy in April this year, no chemo, no radiotherapy and no drugs. Ive only just got around to asking why I havent had any preventative treatments and the answer was "because you dont need them"
I feel very, very lucky, but I still have my down days and try as I might I do worry about what the future holds.
I'm sure when the time comes for my first mammogram I'll spiral, but I'll cross that bridge when I come to it.
I've had lots of lovely support here, it does help knowing that you're not on your own.
Joyve x
Thank you for your reply.
I'm the same about what the future holds.
I have been reading the postings regular and can see that everyone is very supportive but until today haven't been ready to join.
I have just booked my first cruise . Never wanted to do one before by cancer makes you look at things differently and I have a new normal.
Hi,
You're absolutely right, cancer changes everything and definitely your priorities.
I've always wanted to go to Italy, but just never got around to it. So I've booked for next year. Its giving me something to look forward to and focus on.
Hang in there, we're all in this together!
Joyce x
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