New diagnosis and feeling confused and lost

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Hi, this is my first post.  I recently had a recall for my first mammogram and following a repeat mammogram and biopsy,  was diagnosed on Thursday.  I feel quite numb and I'm not sure that its fully sunk in - I've had a few tears but I honestly don't quite feel that its real.  I'm also feeling really confused.  The biopsy has shown DCIS with some invasive cancer.  I believe the consultant said this was about 1.8cm but I'm not sure.  He talked briefly about breast conserving surgery (within a couple of minutes of telling me it was cancer - which I wasn't expecting) as though I would have already had some thoughts on this.   I was then told that there is another area they've found which is around 5cm away from the DCIS & invasive area - so before they can get a treatment plan together, I need another biopsy.  A breast care nurse took us (me and hubby) into the consulting room but she didn't really say a lot, and was very quietly spoken.  I think I missed some of what of was said (I am hard of hearing, plus am just recovering from an ear infection which affected my hearing even more).  I did advise them of this and that i couldn't hear very well but this didn't make any difference.  

It probably doesn't really matter but I keep wondering where the other area of concern has come from.  When I had the recall mammogram they showed me the results of the mammogram on a screen and where they were taking the biopsy from.   There was nothing like that on Thursday.  Am I able to ask for explanations in writing so its a bit clearer, I'm strugglign to process?  Sorry for the babble - I'm sat here with hubby on a nightshift going over it all so felt the need just to offload.  Thank you.