The fall that saved my life

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Good morning, thanks for accepting my request. I don't really know where to start. I had a fall back in November and landed on my boob. It instantly bruised and turned into a lump. I went to the GP and they confirmed a hematoma but to go back in 6 weeks if it hadn't gone away. 8/9 weeks later I went back because it hadn't fully gone away - there was still 4cm lump there. 

They referred me straight to the breast clinic and within 2 weeks I was seen, the consultant assessed and sent me for an ultrasound again it was confirmed to be a hematoma and I would be re measured in 6 weeks to ensure it had reduced and have a biopsy if it hasn't. 2 weeks later I received a phone call to ask me to go for a biopsy the following week to "dot the i's and cross the t's" 

10 days later I had a phone call "my results were available and the consultant wanted to see me in 3 days" 

Yesterday was the day my life changed. The Dr sat across from me and told me that at 35 years of age I had breast cancer. I have 2 beautiful children and my world is just crumbling. 

It is very early and they are hopeful, I don't know the type or treatment - I have an appointment next week with oncology to discuss everything. 

I suppose I'm just numb and looking for any advice. Xxx

  • Hi  

    I know it’s very daunting but I was also diagnosed at 35 - now 36. I’m saying this so you don’t feel alone and you’re not alone. 

    Are you in the UK? If so, where abouts? 

    I am in the north west and everybody who has been on my treatment journey has been fantastic. 
    You should be in very good hands wherever you are with this type. 

    I was distraught when I had my biopsy done and they told me they thought it was ‘c’. My life ended there and then. But the radiologist and nurses in the breast centre gave me a talking to.

    There are LOTS of treatments out there for breast cancer. 

    Do not go on dr google! Please resist. 

    Don’t write your life off just yet - wait to see the oncologist and take it from there. Take it one day at a time. 

    I am not going to lie, but for me, the waiting was the worst. Still is… and I’m nearly 12 months down my journey. I still have another 6 months bbuuuttttttt I can finally see light at the end of the tunnel. 

    Try and enjoy the next few days with your children and family to take your mind off things. I even went for a weekend away cos I was that mifted off and just wanted to get away from home while I was ‘waiting’. 

    Keep your chin up. 
    Sorry I can’t offer anything else xx