I have just been diagnosed a few days ago with triple negative breast cancer. I am waiting for scans to see if it has metastasised as I already know it has spread to lymph nodes in my armpit as this is the first lump I felt.
i have pain in my armpit and now chest pain along with nausea and lightheadedness. I am hoping this is just a stress reaction but I can’t think of anything else and I have to wait until the 26th for my results.
So scared it has spread further and I will be given a terminal diagnosis. It’s my birthday next week and we were meant to be in Thailand celebrating so it has all come as a huge shock! I have no family history and I don’t drink or smoke. I like a health lifestyle and am only 44. I usually cope really well with stress but am struggling a lot with this!
Any advice would be greatly appreciated!
Try no to fret too much about nausea and vomiting, it’s not a given. I suffer terribly from travel sickness but have had chemo twice without any nausea at all. If you are on chemo that’s given 3-weekly (eg EC), you will probably feel best in the 3rd week. I found it was helpful to go away for a few days during this week each time - only going a couple of hours or so away so I could easily get home if necessary. Weekly chemo (eg Paclitaxel) is probably less horrible but doesn’t allow recovery breaks either. Swings and roundabouts.
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