Scared but coping

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Hi everyone and thank you for letting me join this group.

I was diagnosed around 5 weeks ago with stage one/grade 2 bc .

HER2- /ER8 PR8? Think that’s rightJoy All seemed optimistic until MRI showed further areas of concern and has biopsies last week.

So now I’m waiting again for results and op cancelled until results are back.

 I’m scared, emotional etc and just wondered if anyone has had similar experience? 
thank you in advance Heart

  • Hi there don't worry don't be scared you will be looked after I've had her2 stage 2 and I'm still here I found a lump it was checked and had a biopsy and it was 27mm and in a lymph node too so I've had 6 rounds of chemo surgery radiotherapy and 3 lots of herceptin and twice a year bone infusion for 3 years yes I've felt poorly but I'm on the up now it does take time everyone is different but the worst tie is waiting I know and the what ifs the oncology people the breast nurses are amazing they will sit round a table and work out what's best for you a plan will be made soon and it will be put in place and you will eel much better don't worry .if you need financial financial help  or just a chatmcmillian are amazing there are lots of books to help we have a wonderful centre called the cove where you can get a cuppa and have a read  of many books available on how to look after your self on your journey the most important thing is to look after your self get good nutrition ahead of your journey to help your body my daughter sent me gusto parcels for 6 weeks before I started chemo she said mother I want you to clean eat before all this starts as she's a vegan I still eat plant based but add fish I feel good on it good luck with your journey you will be ok we are are here for you big hugs xx

  • Oh thank you Fiona!

     My mind  has been going into overdrive with all of the worst scenarios. 
    Everyone has been amazing in my journey so far. The nurses and doctors are just wonderful.

     Again thank you for your reply and I’mso glad you are doing so wellHeart

     I’ve had a few rough years due to anxiety so that doesn’t help but trying to stay positive.

  • Bless you and good luck you  will ok  be ok take the rough with the smooth just remember to look after yourself xx

  • Thank you and sending you a hug Fiona Two hearts

  • Sorry to hear that your MRI showed further areas concern and that you have to wait until your results are back before you can have your op. Hopefully your results will be fine.

    Best of luck with your results.

    Best wishes

    Daisy53

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  • Thank you very much Daisy. How are you doing? X

  • I'm doing ok thanks Jax007.  Like you I'm waiting on results.  I had to have a ct scan and a bone scan today as they discovered some cancer in one of my lymph nodes after my operation. x

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  • Sending you all a big hug Kissing heartx

  • Thanks again Daisy x

  • Thank you Bonnie Boo x