Newbie starting Chemo May 2023

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Hello,

Just joined the community. 

What a rollercoaster of emotions the last few weeks have been, found what I thought must be a cyst in left breast 3 weeks ago but thought better get it checked out, was seen at the gp the same day and referred to the breast clinic where I had mammograms ultrasound and biopsy on the same day. I was told it was most probably cancerous at that stage, the following 8 days waiting for results were agonising. Like being in the middle of a bad dream.

I will start chemo in May, (8 rounds), then surgery for removing the tissue (metal clips going in this week), then radiotherapy.

The ‘chemo first’ came as a huge shock but I am now resigned to loosing my hair and have got some headwear in preparation!

Weirdly now I know the treatment plan I feel better than did the week and a bit waiting for the results.Trying to get on as normal. 

If there’s a chemo starting in May thread would like to join , I couldn’t see one. 

  • Good morning  , welcome to the community and sorry to hear your breast cancer diagnosis.

    I was diagnosed in January and I am also starting chemotherapy in May, on the 9th. 

    I agree it all is an emotional rollercoaster and waiting is the worst part, I also feel calmer once I have a plan in place. 

    Hopefully a May chemotherapy thread will start, there are a few of us who have recently joined that will be going through chemotherapy starting in May. 
    I’m not sure if we start that group or someone in Admin, hopefully someone in a previous month will advise. 

    Good luck , we are here for each other, stay in touch x

  • Hello there, thanks for the reply. I’m starting 11th May, so it will be so good to have this extra level of support for each other.x

  • Absolutely 

    Sending hugs x

  • Hi BecA, sorry to hear of your diagnosis. I am ahead of you and PDarlo and am I the January chemo thread. As you both are starting in May rather than waiting go for it and set up a May starting chemo thread. There will be others on here but maybe are waiting too for someone to set one up.

    Wishing you the best for your journey.

    Hugs from cuffcake x x x x x

  • Thanks Cuffcake. Hope your treatment is going well.x

    That sounds like a good idea if there isn’t one, only just joined the forum and couldn’t see one.

  • Hi I also start chemo I’m May, in fact it’s this Wednesday the 3rd. I was diagnosed with stage 3 breast cancer in February. I had two lumps and decided the best thing for me was to have a mastectomy without reconstructive surgery for now. 
    It would be great to set up a thread if there are a few of us starting together. It really hit home last week when I visited the chemo unit and had my picc line put in. I’m trying to be positive, I’m lucky to have lots of support and it’s my kids that keep me going. 
    Im sorry that you have found yourself in this group, you will definitely find the support and answers that you need.

    Big hugs xx

  • Hi Cazza, Good to hear you are trying to be positive I am too, kids and husband are coming to terms with it now and we are trying to being upbeat, I just want to get it underway.

    When we went for the meeting with the oncologist last week, I sort of stepped outside myself for a moment and saw myself in the cancer unit, it felt surreal.

    Hugs for 3rd.x

  • Hi BecA,

    I started a May 2023 chemo group for you Kissing heart 

    Hopefully if you search now you will see it 

    May 2023 Chemo Starters.

    I included PDarlo and Cazza25 too.

    I’m ahead bid you all as I was in the January chemo group (although I started my chemo on Dec 2022. 
    Happy to shared my experiences if you wanted in that group Kissing heart

    Hugs from cuffcake x x x x x

  • Oh thanks so much Cuffcake! just getting to grips with the forum so wasn’t too sure if I should do it.

    That’s really appreciated.xx

  • Hi Cuffcake thank you for setting up a new chemo group, it will be great to share our stories, keep each other positive and hear your experiences. I hope you’re ok and dealing as well as you can with the treatment. 
    Pleas can I ask how I find the group?

    Big hugs Cazza25