Triple negative stage 2 BC

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I was diagnosed last Tuesday (7th March) and am waiting for an MRI appointment which I am told will determine the next steps of my treatment. I have two tumors that are 23mm wide in total and medical staff seem very confident this is treatable and early.

I’m very much an ‘I’m fine, it’s all fine’ kind of person; however, I’m feeling very weird about the whole thing. Logically I know it’s not the worst news and I might not even need chemo etc. But I’m always the one that sorts out everyone else’s problems and I feel like it’s happening to someone else.

The important people to me know, but before I know what’s going on I kind of don’t want wider friends etc to know. I’ve also just started a new job, there’s a lot to take in and quite frankly my head is all over the place.

  • Hi

    My ongologist refused any scans as said it was not in the lympe nodes and that is where it spreads from but I threw my toys out the pram and he agreed on a CT scan, luckerly it was clear, I did asked him about it spreading through the blood and he said it was unusual but can happen.

    How are you doing now?

    Kerri

  • I had the secondary burnt out through microwave ablation just before Christmas. Got an MRI next week to see if my liver is now clear, and had a CT scan last week. 

  • Hi Louise,

    I too have TNBC and and live in Leeds - so treatment is at Jimmy’s. Presumably by now you have the results of your MRI and a treatment plan. I thought TNBC always meant chemo? Maybe I’m wrong?

    I am having chemo first - 3 rounds of EC once every three weeks, and then paclitaxel weekly - then surgery - the type of surgery will depend on the genetics outcome. Overall I have tolerated the chemo pretty well so far for which I am grateful

    I too didn't want to tell people for a while - I just didn't want to keep saying it our loud and see people’s reactions, but I can cope better with that now.

    I was diagnosed 2 days before christmas - the treatment does make me starving all the time - but no weight gain. I eat all the right food and walk the dog every day.

    The Maggies centre attached to Jimmy’s is brilliant for support and respite - just to even sit there whilst waiting for blood results etc so definitely make use of that if you are coming to Leeds for treatment.

    Hope you still feeling grounded - just wanted to reach out as a Leeds person!

    Jan

  • Thanks Jan! I’ll definitely need chemo and am waiting for a CT scan and oncology appointment, which comes after the scan apparently. I’ll be chasing everything up until I get answers or appointments.