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Not silly LondonLass, glad you let us know. Big hugs xxxxxxxxx
Onwards and flatwards (don't do hills) and keep walking if you can!
Oh no, Wombat23, hope you find it. No wonder this sort of thing is happening to you, having to remember and think for everyone else.Â
Big hugs xxxx
Onwards and flatwards (don't do hills) and keep walking if you can!
Hi wombat.23, any Luck finding the Wallet? I hope you did! If not it's not the end of the world. Cards can be cancelled and replaced, its a nightmare and complete pain. But DON'T beat yourself up about it as its just one of those things!
Sending you the BIGGEST............
HUG!
Gay you are doing amazingly in a VERY difficult situation! Just remember we are here for you if you need us. Xxx
....sorry you lostnthe wallet...gosh you have such a lot to think about.Did you put it in a safe place...try to relax and think back....where did you use it last?...is it in a pocket?..I expect it will turn up somewhere you dont expect as you have so much on your mind.As someone else said...might be best to tell his bank and cancel cards just to be on safe side.Inconvenient,but will put your mind at rest.
This is quite separate to the above...but...just a thought on “Awake”....Have just woken up spontaneously at 4am again.The only common denominator is that I had a drink after 9pm the previous night.Yes need loo.Oh dear I am turning into an elderly person.I fully understand what elderly people did ,when I looked after them,more and more.But it is strangely tranquil becoming older.It is like appreciating comfortable situations,soft bedding and quietness.Quite nice really .
LondonLass...aww thanks,Lovely ...yes for defo GBear....x
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Oh no wombat.23 i hope you find the wallet. I am so forgetful now and I can’t absorb as much information as I used too,I got told it’s down to the surgical menopause. I totally understand how older people who are losing their memory feel. Hopefully it be somewhere silly and easy to find, but yeah if you can’t find it, let the bank know they can send new cards and cancel the old ones just incase.
LondonLass conselling does stir up so many emotions, at the moment I am filled with anger issues and I am feeling frustrated too, plus dealing with the long term complications I have now. But getting the support was one of the best things I did, just like you. We have so much fears locked up inside it’s important to share so we don’t get burdened and it helps us move on too.
I found this and I thought yes, that is so important to remember in all this emotional baggage so many of us start to carry, you will get there no matter how long and everyone’s support here gives us ALL strength.
Yes the sleep fairy will be gladly excepted, I need more sleep I know what has woken me, well a combination actually I am very dehydrated just had a good drink of water and a cup of tea. The other is we have a leaking pipe which pours water right outside my bedroom window, we need a new system for the toilet as the overflow pipe is the one outside my window and the water company keeps upping the water pressure and each time they do this the overflow system can’t take it. We have our water barrows to collect water for the garden so there is some benefit but very annoying too.
GBear....oh dear....do you have ear plugs?I spose you wouldnt hear the alarm clock then tho...nothing worse than feeling angry for tossing and turning....
also,was interested in your term,”surgical menopause”.Not heard of that one....but am so interested to hear more...what does it mean?xx
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