Been awake for about an hour now. Done the "Beating Bowel Cancer" forum now just seeing how all you guys are and whose still/been awake!Â
OMG Owsmum. I had to read your post twice. No chance of getting back to sleep now for you. How on earth can he sleep.Good luck in the morning. X
Good morning everyone else! X
I used to walk around like everything was fine, but deep down, inside my shoe, my sock was sliding off.
Now I walk around and everything is fine.....one day I am going to by new socks with strong elastic......but in the meantime I am learning to stop and and pull my sock up!
I’m not sure I understand fully what you found him doing. I’ve got the jist of two different things
So not understanding, if it is either of my two thoughts - I’d be doing ‘what is best for me’. If you are upset - then no point in making yourself feel worse at this time of the night - go to bed and try get some sleep. Then tomorrow think it over and plan how ‘you’ want to deal with this. Maybe not mention anything just for the time been whilst you gather your thoughts and what you want. In the meantime ‘deep breaths’ - you’ve done nothing wrong..... well apart from scariring the lads in the car park ;) xxxx
I'm hoping this makes sense - only my mind says one thing and my fingers type whatever they like x
Caz i think you are in shock. What a terrible thing to have happened on top of everything else. Everyone is different and only you can make those decisions. Xx
Well ladies I shall have to admit defeat and try and get some more sleep! My iPad battery has decided it needs recharging! Oh how simple life would be if we just had to plud ourselves in at the end of each day!! Perfect!
Caz, only you can decide what to do! But above all else, look after yourself! You are going through enough without all this! ((((((((BIG HUG))))))))
Googlemuma Hi, hope all is going well for you! Always nice to hear from you!
Shellian you must have the cleanest bathroom on the planet ;-)
They were both naked, there was something going on  but hadn't got to full on intercourse if you get my gist!
he's been weired for a couple of weeks so, we'll deal with it. Been married for 23 years and together for 26 so it's not worth him trying to deny anything, I know him better than he knows himself!
'Morning to you Shellian and Lass! Sleep deprived, stressed and constantly anxious! Just a normal day at the office! I was thinking of making myself a cup of tea but I have a "fasting blood test" in the morning and black tea just wouldn't do it!Â
Like you I often just get up, put loads of washing on, use the tumble dryer, ( cheap electricity) fold and put away, tidy up and clean. I often hear my neighbour hoovering at 2.00am!
When done, and the sun coming up I take a cup of tea back to bed, and catch up with an hour or so sleep.
Compensation......coming downstairs and housework done. Negative.......suitcases under the eyes.
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I used to walk around like everything was fine, but deep down, inside my shoe, my sock was sliding off.
Now I walk around and everything is fine.....one day I am going to by new socks with strong elastic......but in the meantime I am learning to stop and and pull my sock up!
I missed out on one of your posts. I understand now. What a complete twat he is. I’m not to good with this type of thing, I hold grudges, I plan revenge. First of all ‘where did she come from?’ meaning had he phoned her, is she local, etc. I’d be looking at his mobile for any messages and finding her number, has she got a husband etc.
You have to weight it all up, how long you have been together, have you children, how long has it been going on, is it the first time, etc. etc.
You can work through this - it’s very hard and will take a lot of time - you have to think ‘what you want’.
Plus in the meantime some itching powder in his pants will give him something else to quietly think about.
I'm hoping this makes sense - only my mind says one thing and my fingers type whatever they like x
Aww bless you sounds like you're having a really tough time. I hope you have some help and support. I must be overtired i read that as suitcases under stairs. Â Im thinking why. Ha ha. In often here so anytime you need to talk. Take care. Xx
