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Happy mothers day to all you mothers ss fruit loops =)
I too for one live with my mum and not know anyone who as strong as her and tbh its been heart breaking going through this treatment from loosing her voice yo losing some of her hair most of all sorry to her throat and neck been effected her neck red raw weeping that and inside her throat red rsw causing her so much pain =(
Maybe because irs night time but mothers day in way of making me think ofboyher stuff i never wanted be s mother not sure if it s because not been in long term relationship i do have a furball who love dearly yes some may think hes a cat but he is my world. Anyway i hate cancer for taking away of being mother as zoladex yes you csn get pregnant but harms the baby and lethzole think it does=( in a way when i realised this as selfish sounds inside i felt hurt when met up with friends younger than me with kids =(
Anyway sorry for moaning fryit looosvyou loy have enough to deal with annd i best go back to sleep heard birds twirling much love xxxxxxxxxx
Sounds like you need a big cyber hug .....so gere is one winging your way. Fortunately the cyber kind beats the social distancing! And we have plenty of that here....we are not allowed to go out except in the garden but we are keeping well so perhaps it isn't such a bad thing.
So you and your mum .....stay safe. Tell mum I hope she starts to feel better soon. I assume its her treatment which has burnt her skin?
Love to you both. Karen
Thanking all of you who have sent supportive posts . I have read the guidelines from NICE that one of you posted ,and it is exactly what she told me !! Chemo CAN be stopped if the consultant thinks it is making more likely to be ill during this crisis , the bit she didn’t say to me was , restarting after a break , and then reviewing after some time to see if control has been regained , if not, then permanently stopping chemo will happen. This gives me a bit of hope that if she does stop it next month she might be able to restart it !? Anyway, a very good article .
secondly several of you wonderful people have asked me to be a friend , I did start trying to do it , but with my brain problem and being a.luddite I got completely lost, and although I really am extremely grateful , I think the stress would be too much for me !
sal, I empathise that Mothering Sunday must be difficult for you .
ALSO .....churches are suggesting that at 1900 this evening we light a candle and put in the front window ,to “ spread some light across the world “ I shall do this ....
the sun is out , the days are getting longer , there are plenty of weds in the garden to keep me busy
best wishes to all of you ....
me x
Hi ... how are you doing? My crocheting may produce a hat if I’m lucky.
hugs x
“ The only constant thing in life is change “
I’ve just read the article ... good it’s given you hope. Yes...clocks go forward next weekend, lighter evenings. Always have plenty of weeds and pruning and sorting to do too. Might get all the other jobs done too ...
sending hugs xx
“ The only constant thing in life is change “
Glad the article has given you some hope
Happy Mothering Sunday to all, those who are, those who would love to have been, those who were, and those who will be mothers. Celebrate that you had one, all of you!
thanks for all the messages, I slept a bit, on and off, but have got a bit more positivity this morning.
sending you all big hugs xxx
Moomy
Morning Fruit loops on this very surreal Mother’s Day, I have already been in tears this morning with the messages my girls have been sending me, it is horrid not being able to see them and my grandchildren, missing all their hugs xx
, special hugs for you, it doesn’t seem right that they just can say that in such a cruel way, but I am wondering if I will be told the same on my next visit, it is all so confusing, thank goodness for this awake thread, where we can support each other.
We will beat this and do our best to support each other, love each and everyone of you Fruit Loops, thanks for being there for me and stay safe xx
Stay Safe everyone, Love and hugs Jenny xxx
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