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Mrsox,
Really sorry, I must’ve missed your post about needing chemo!!
If I can do it - you can!! I’ll be with you every step of the way.
Have a look at the January Chemo Club thread for tips, info etc
xx
Mrsox - you're absolutely right about the blokes. This is something they can't fix. That's exactly what my hubby said. He was very hard work at first but came good. He's a science nerd so I put him on to reading research papers - that kept him busy for weeks. I also used to give him tasks, even ones I was quite capable of doing, just so he'd feel useful. Mind you he was a great chauffeur. The parking at the place I had chemo was absolute shite so having someone drop me off and then pick me up was perfect. Mind you it's easy in Canberra as everything's only 20 mins max away from home.
Hi Ladies
I know my breast cancer was not as bad as some you ladies on here but all the same it is a shock to find out. Like Mrxos partner mine has been brilliant and as above I have had to find him things to do and good thing he loves cooking but he is also a social worker so added stress there. He has been fantastic but sometimes we have argued but he had been with me through a few operations over the last three years from a hysterectomy in 2015 to the breast cancer July 2017 as I had to tell him I had it while he was away in Ibiza with a mate and I felt so guilty.
Enough of me ranting on Mrsox what you did was fantastic on helping that lad as I had read through the threads just now.
I wish you all a lovely restful weekend and lots of hugs Wendy xxxx
Ladies....
Thanks f ur support once again.
Bein diagnosed once agen we this bastard disease floored me agen , im devastated n on the brink of tears all the time . I f@€ckin HATE it !!!!!!!!
Wat it does t you n ur family is shite..... me brain is mashed spuds
I thought the ocn bloke was gona say no to chemo i honestly did, well i was rong there. I will get threw it as i will not be beaten.
The incident in tesco was horrid to see, me dad was a bully, i was bullied at scu n in me 20s i nearly married 1.
The piont bein iv always been a giver and been taken f granted a lot of the time. Iv a gud shit detector too , so wen i see or meet a plebian i know, life as taugt me alot.
Well this young man was soso upset it was awful. I wer stood ther thinkin i bet he dont want cum here but he gets up n cums work n prob hates it then thers the bitch givin him a hard time f bein 30 mins late !!!!! Ok he mite be late every day who knows ? But to do that is bang out of order n she was lovin too till she felt my death stare. I wouldnt want my lad treated like that. The young man is someones son.
Life is hard enuff we out all that. My lads been f a 2nd interview tday f a job he dont really want n if he stiks to it ill eat me hat. However he has to learn. Its been a battle of wits between me n him f past 4 yrs iv cum down on him so hard sumtimes iv bin in a spin f days. He seems to hav pulled his socks up of late, again we shall see.
I just think its nice t be nice as u never no wat people carry round we um. Look as us reprobates, i no wouldnt get threw all this shite we out you riff raff. People think i like t av a row n cause mayhem , the mayhem yeh as it always ends we a laugh, avin a row no dont like trouble n shoutin n screamin but i wont be put on . That dont make u a bad person , it lets people no uv found out ther a dik ed n to stay away or u will get bac end of tonge..
Winky49 .... dont play down cancer its a bastard disease n 1 of the worst words you cud hear in any language... and wat is does to you mentally cannot be put into words !!!!!!
You no wat gets me , wen people say i dont like people who swear makin bad use of a brilliant language.
I wud luv t say me sayin now, however its colourfull n wud offend , no matter wat tone its sed in
It goes summat like " sacon, racon, rikrasterdly..!!!!!!! hehehe. Xxx
Laters n chin up xxx
Ci thi watsappund..... wer art thi ?????
Iv rote war n peace. !!!!!!!
Xxx
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