AWAKE.........

Cant believe i havent crashed and burned so so tired. Bathrooms looking great though it was due a clean. Xx

Shelliann ,next time you feel like cleaning the bathroom please let me know .mine is manky and no matter how awake I am I don’t get up to do cleaning .feeling sorry for myself as I have a rotten cold and I am supposed to be going to a charity ball on Saturday which also happens to be my birthday.cost a lot of money too.

More importantly I’ve got surgery next Friday so need to get rid of this flipping cough

Hi annecc mine was to believe me. Colds are awful really hope you are better for the ball. If it gets any worse see the doc but you should be ok next week. Xx

Battery recharged, both mine and iPad! I managed another couple of hours sleep! So can't complain!

Those of you still working, keep going! You've nearly made it to the weekend! Xxxx

Glad you managed some sleep sal. My partner looked very confused that everything was done this morning. Its like im on autopilot. Xx

- how absolutely awful for you!! There's only one thing to do - ask yourself What do YOU need? And do that. He's a selfish prat, but that's my opinion. Hugs hugs hugs.

Sal, glad you got a bit more sleep.

Yes, it's Friday evening, I made it. Just a weekend on call to get through......

Or weeks rather than days!!

Another score today - we had an email from our governing body to say they had to let our auditor go. Due to complaints I suspect!! Whoop whoop - he was a nightmare. Hopefully our changeover audit won't be so bad now.

Right, need to push the hoover round for a bit before the landlord visit tonight.

xx

Owsmum

Mash the b@$7@7ds bollocks we a rusty fork.!!!!!!!!!! 

I believe and this is only my opinion and counts f nowt, that if a man cheets on you. Its cos ther selfish . Or just down rite stupid. If a woman cheets on her hubby , only my opinion counts f nowt. She is not happy a woman builds a home a hubby / partner contributes . 

Just remember luv your worth a lot more , than a quik shag in a shed.

Sendin a hug lovly lady. 

Keep smiling. Xxx

Hi Caz

Just been cathing up on these posts. How did you stop yourself putting a pillow over his face when he went to sleep. Must have been cold in that shed. Its a wonder his assets wern't frozen.

You have been together a long time so I hope you can sort it out.

All the best

Sue xxx 

Goodnight Everyone, remember.........

Hope tonight is a better night for EVERYONE xxxxx

Hi Caz. I'm just catching up on these posts too. You poor thing - I don't know how you didn't hit him with a frying pan. I'd be so furious.

Seems to me that it has to be ALL about what you want:

- stay or go
- is the marriage worth saving or was it on the slippery slope anyway
- how do you feel about being by yourself

Then, if he grovels enough, you need to work out whether this has happened before or is a one off, what's the likelihood of reoffending, how repentant is he? 

Even then, I'd be hard pressed to let him stay.

Don't forget - if you decide to split, kick him out, don't you leave. I made that mistake and would never recommend it - made life much harder. 

Wishing you all the best. I hope you can resolve this for you.