Brain Tumour Diagnosis

FormerMember
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Hello Everyone,

I just wanted some advice from anyone affected by being diagnosed with a Stage 3 brain tumour and for caring for those who have. I have recently been diagnosed with a grade 3 brain tumour and have just started radiotherapy. I am in a low point at the moment after feeling positive about my battle ever since my diagnosis in June. I am mainly feeling really frightened about my future, as I wanted to find out the typical life expectancy once initially diagnosed. I feel that finding out the stats, I feel worse about getting through this and feel that I will have no future. I'm thinking about getting a Councillor during my radiotherapy treatment as I am just constantly feeling scared, Has anyone got any advice? I just feel that life is so unfair.

Thank you, 

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    FormerMember in reply to FormerMember

    Hi Billie

    i was diagnosed with a Medullablastoma in March 2018. I was devastated and feared the worst. My children were only 2 and 6 at the time. I was so scared I was going to leave them without a mum. 

    I used to look at people on the telly and felt it was unfair they were healthy and I’d been given this bombshell. It’s quite normal. 

    Make sure you have someone to talk to - counsellor, best friend - I had my mum - we walked down some pretty dark roads but always came out of them with a positive thought to hold onto. It’s OK to visit these thoughts, but don’t stay there. 

    I had 6 weeks of radiotherapy, then 5 cycles of chemo (Cisplatin, lomustine and vincristine). 

    2 years on I’m still here, taking my kids to school, walking the dog. I do still get fatigued if I do too much. 

    The best advice I can give you is to not google anything - it’s full of scare stories and focus on your Road you’re walking down - everyone‘s journey is different. 
    Apps such as Headspace really help too with avalanche of thoughts you feel. 


    Do things that you enjoy, I really got into jigsaw puzzles - kept my brain busy but my body didn’t have to exert itself. I also ended up reading a lot of books too .

    Good luck with your treatment. Sending lots of hugs 

    ISS x

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