Hi everyone
I'm not actually new, i joined 3 years ago when my husband was first diagnosed with rectal cancer . ( lost those log in details ♀️)
He had his op ( APER) 2 years ago and has just had his second year all clear ️
He copes well with the colostomy on the whole .
, EXCEPT when he’s been drinking when he has dreadful leakage , leaves a mess everywhere and then leaks in the night too .
All this is bad enough at home , but on holiday it’s awful.
Recently we were in Greece , and somebody more or less pointed the finger at my husband in a holiday forum we belong to, posting about how disgusting the toilets had been left in a particular bar .
I'm so ashamed .
we’re due to go back there in a few months and I just can’t face it . I can’t bear this for the rest of my life .
I have booked a review with stoma nurse .
hes very careful what he eats on holiday , avoiding anything spicy . But will not stop drinking .
Can anyone identify, and offer any advice please
Fabulous advice but please stay clear of puppy training pads although cheaper than incontience ones they contain chemicals to attract the puppy to the pad which believe me as a community nursing assistant seeing patients use these as a cheaper option has an impact of skin integrity.
all those suggestions however are fabulous and I hope your husband and mind if needs a stoma will embrace
Good advice Karen. I hope he cleans his own mess up. Not doing so is a good way to lose friends (a pal of mine is in a similar position and no-one invites him out anymore). Less in = less out and I avoid pints and drink spirits instead. Beer and cider act as a laxative as far as I am concerned, so moderation is the key. The strips are Brava Elastic Strips from Coloplast and they are very effective; I'd be lost without them. Also, I find a loose and large T shirt worn in bed acts as a slip plane to prevent the stoma pouch from snagging on the sheet and leaking.
Dulac
Hi BradleyJ
That’s really interesting, thank you. I wasn’t aware, and used to use incontinence pads in the past. Cost made me change to puppy pads, but I rarely have them in contact with any of my skin as I only use them while out of the home and on holiday. I’ve never had an issue with my skin, so I’m going to continue to use them on a very occasional basis as I’m on a very limited income, but appreciate this extra bit of knowledge which will make me take more care with them!
Sarah xx
Hi Greekgirl
Yes, best advice is to get that stoma measured properly as leaks will always happen if the bags are cut too big.
If the problem persists then a couple of other things spring to mind, maybe a couple of loperamide to slow things down?
What about sachets to put in the bag that absorb liquid and make the contents firmer/more manageable?
I got some samples from this website when I was having problems but didn't actually use them in the end as the problem got sorted, but maybe worth a try.
https://opus-healthcare.co.uk/products/absorbagel-stoma-powder/
Good Luck.
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