Hi to whoever reads this.
62 old guy here, a survivor by nature, still active in many aspects and healthy(?).
I was first surprised to know I had cancer, no symptoms, then was surprised how well my recovery went and now here I am surprised I need chemo.
It is stage 3, it left the bowels but hasn't spread to other organs. They found traces in 5 out of 32 lymph nodes and in blood vessels.
Reading other people's suffering in these forums is so humbling, makes me almost ashamed to introduce my case.
Still haven't talked to the oncology team, but was hoping to know from anyone, what lays ahead for me.
Any light?
Thanks!
It’s funny, I never got used to it. It would take me by surprise every time! The funny thing is that I was sitting in my conservatory after the chemo and I put a ginger sweet in my mouth. When the pain came, I immediately spat the sweet out, thinking it had caused the pain. You know what? I NEVER found the sweet I spat out. It was 4 months ago and it’s never turned up!
First bite was one of the reasons that we started the chemo top tips link! A forum member posted that they’d had a first bite shock and was really worried until she remembered she’d seen it in the top tips link so realised it was a normal side effect after all.
I remember eating a sandwich while listening to a colleague telling a tale and she looked quite worried at the expression on my face as the first bite hit! Only found I got it for the first couple of days after the infusion though?
Have you checked the bottom of your sock for the sticky sweet? x
Hi Wingsuit, I actually meant the entire treatnent. I'm so "looking forward" to start mine and have my own first bites and cold hands. My appointment is on the 24th.
I thank you and everyone else for your responses, not only for the insights but it is also great to know that there are other (great) people out there in a similar situation.
Hi Rich,
sorry for the late reply.
I had my operation on March the 6th last year and finished my 4 rounds of chemo (3 week cycles) by mid July. By the 30th of Aug I was postcreteing in a 8ft 4*4 fence post to start my fence project! To be fair, I could only manage a post a weekend, it knackered me.
There is life after this! Yes, my energy levels still drop rapidly in the evening but even that’s getting better.
Best of luck, Paul
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