Thanks for letting me join. I was diagnosed with boael cancer about a month ago (rT3N2, MSI stable) although not all together sure what it means. I do know I am shortly to begin chemotherapy and this will be followed by radiotherapy and a likely operation.
Most times I cope well with it but sometimes I become overwhelmed and tearful. Stupid really because my consultant has said my cancer is curable so I shoukd be feeling on top of the world.
Hey there. I’m very new to this also being emotional I think is normal.
How you should feel is how you feel. Cry scream laugh but just keep talking. Never never suffer in silence.
This journey is probably going to be hard for us both so don’t forget to enjoy whatever it is that normally brings you joy. I’m starting to enjoy the more simple things in life. I hope you can too
sending you positive thoughts xxx
Hi Devonman1952 and a warm welcome to the board. A cancer diagnosis can be a real shock and it’s natural to feel a range of emotions. Have a cry when you need one and then pick yourself up, take a deep breath and say ‘I can do this’.
I went through the same treatment back in 2016/17 and it’s tough but they told me that they were treating me with a ‘view to cure’ and I’ll be celebrating my 8 year ‘no evidence of disease’ anniversary on Thursday.
We’re all at different stages of treatment and recovery on here and happy to help and support you through yours. The support desk is also available 7 days a week from 8-8 if you’d like to talk things through with someone in person?
Take care
Karen x
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