Hello!

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Im new on here. I was diagnosed with bowel cancer 2 years ago. I had a good prognosis, 1 weeks radiotherapy  2 surgeries =11 hours. Permanent colostomy and Barbie butt. Due to wound healing problems I missed the 12 week window for best chemotherapy. It didnt matter as 4 weeks later 10 tumours started partying in my liver. Nobody saw that coming. Only treatment offered was palliative chemotherapy. That was the worst blow.

Ive had 15 chemo treatments over 14 months and my tumours are slumbering at present. Next scan in January then trying a 2nd line of treatment.

Im trying to be positive but the break from treatment is hard as I feel Im not fighting the cancer. My body is enjoying the rest and this Christmas I wont be bald!!!

I live alone,except for my dog and retirement wasnt meant to be like this but Im doing okay. Im happy to still be here at almost 68.

Regards to you all.

  • Hi Shelah2 

    Youve been through the mill. I’m in a different place than you at the moment but with Cancer it always seems to be in the shadows waiting jump out and bite me in the bum 

    I can fully understand that you feel vulnerable without your chemo treatment. 

    There’s lots of info available here if you want to read older posts and there’s a stoma support group you can join where there’s support from others in a similar position you also can advice others if you wish as you’re well experienced  I had so many tips when I was struggling with my Ileostomy 

    Take care 

    Ann
     ‍Art

  • Hi Sheilah2

    Tough journey so far but your positive attitude will help. I have my stoma "Eddie" and live a full life with him at my side. The alternative was an early end, so a barbie bum (not sure if us blokes can call it that) is a blessing and tbh, i find certain positives in that!! I live in The Now and take every day as a bonus now. I feel very fit and strong and am in a better place than I was 2 years ago.

    Keep strong, be positive and fight the horrible disease.

    My prayers are with you

    Richard x

  • Hi Richard

    Think you’d qualify to call it a Ken Bum

    I’d never heard of it when I first joined think it was Kath that wrote up he first time. 

    Take care. Keep sending out those positive vibes 

    Ann
     ‍Art

  • It is definitely called a Ken Bum, Ann! Seen it referred to as that before Joy

    Sarah xx


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