Hello - Ten years since surgery…

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Hello!

Today is 10 years since my bowel resection for what turned out to be stage 3 cancer. I would just like to offer encouragement to anyone who finds themselves in the situation I was in. I was 54 years old, fit and well and simply noticed blood on my stools. I went to my GP immediately and long story short, a colonoscopy confirmed that I had a tumour. I had surgery - a nine inch scar which is now barely visible - and 6 months of chemotherapy. It was tough going but not as bad as I had anticipated ( not having had much experience of knowing anyone who had undergone similar treatment ). Today I am basically fit and well - though a head full of grey hair now!! - and the only thing is the daily reminder of  how fortunate I am in that I have fairly severe constant neuropathy in my feet and lower legs. I am fine when on my feet and moving around but it is pretty annoying when sitting. It is not painful, just a nagging nuisance. Early on I decided that I didn’t want to take any medication for it because I knew it would be long term so instead I decided to accept it and focus on the fact that I am very fortunate to have otherwise made a full recovery. It is a bit of a mental battle but I will not be defeated! I don’t visit the bowel forum very often but I am so aware that there are lots of people travelling the same path as me and I just want to tell a positive story. Take care.

  • Hi . How lovely to read your post - it’s always good to hear of long term positive outcomes. I had a wry smile when I read about your neuropathy as I am exactly the same 5 years down the line - it’s annoying and I often sit with my socks off in the middle of winter and sleep with my feet stuck out of the bed - it’s like chronic sunburn but a small price to pay I suppose.

    Thanks for your update and I look forward to reading the same in another 10 years time

    Take care

    Karen x

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  • Hi GlitzyGranny, thank you for this post. It is so lovely to hear positive stories xx

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    Hi..I have recently been diagnosed with bowel cancer but I have been through the operation etc and last week confirmed I need no further treatment. I feel blessed having received this positive news however feel terribly guilty for those that the news is not so great so don't like to celebrate too loud. I lost my son last year to to a brain tumour which brought back lots of memories during my hospital stay but to all, act on anything abnormal to your life and specially your healtj, get it checked and don't be too proud to ask for help...

  • Great news  and .

    You have both endured the difficult aspects of treatment to get to this place and I am delighted for you both. .

    I am so sorry to read about your son . Just watching another family I know grapple with a similar situation . You are so correct about self advocacy. You have been through so much . Life seems bitterness mixed with sweetness too many times . Sending you love too .

    Take care and hope you both have many years ahead of good health .

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