Hi there fellow group members.
My name’s Annie and I’m 56.
I wanted to introduce myself and to reach out to say how useful I’ve found reading the chats on this site - it’s really helped me this week.
As a little history, I’d been suffering since c. August 2021 with increased bowel movements daily and put this down to my diet and being slightly overweight. Started eating more healthily in January 22 and am now at a good weight and then noticed blood in my stools.
Reached out to my GP at the end of January - was seen immediately for an examination and diagnosed with haemorrhoids and had bloods taken and a stool test. Dr called to say there was blood in my stool and that she’d like to refer me for colonoscopy.
Very shocked to be told on 24th February, straight after the colonoscopy and having had a biopsy taken that I had Cancer in my rectum.
Have had MRI and CT scans now and will attend a meeting with my Consultant on Thursday 24th March to find out the plan of attack, which I’ve been told will mean an operation as a first step.
I’m lucky to have the most fantastic Partner, Family and Friends network and am doing my best to remain positive, although those doubts creep in, particularly in the middle of the night!
Hoping that the outcome of the meeting will mean they can help me - the message at the Colonoscopy was delivered very harshly indeed
Thank you all for what you’ve shared, it’s been a massive help this week. Will update you when I know more.
Staying strong and positive. Annie
Hi Annie
This is a wonderful place to gain support and have some advice from others that have been there.
If you click on names you can read peoples bio please stay off Google
I found the early stages the hardest, my head was all over the place.
Now that you are in the system you will get a treatment plan and then you can let them deal with that cancer.
It sounds as if you’re doing really well keeping fit and eating healthily
Ask any questions. There’s lots of really knowledgeable people here. Hope you have a good weekend
take care
Ann
Thank you David. Much appreciated. I’ll update as I know more. Keeping everything crossed.
Hi Annie
that’s almost parallel with my story. It was harshly delivered at the colonoscopy, and nights are the worst. Your paranoias find your weak spot around 4am.
Im finding that family and friends are very important, and I’m hearing many stories of how good the nhs staff are. You’ll hear about lots of other people with health issues and that it’s by no meansnly you. There’s many success stories out there. Positive Mental Attitude is needed. I’m watching and reading up about the psychology of stress and anxiety. There’s some really good advice and pract
al things you can do to combat it. Have a look around for it
Thank you Wut. It’s good to know I’m not alone. I have to say that apart from the harsh delivery of my diagnosis (and being honest there’s probably not a good way to do that anyway), the NHS staff I’ve spoken to since have been really lovely. I will do as you recommend and do some reading about the psychology of stress and anxiety. Good luck to you in your journey too.
Hi Annie,
A warm welcome to the forum from me, but so sorry you find yourself here.
This is a wonderful forum and I’m so glad you’ve found us. There’s so much support and advice on here you’ll almost always find someone who has been there and done/had that. If you click on the icon at the side of the persons name it’ll take you to their bio if they’ve written one.
Most people agree this is the worst part (waiting for your treatment plan) – once all the test/scan results are in place there will be a Multidisciplinary Team (MDT) where all the specialist will look at the information and form the best plan forward for you. You will be given this treatment plan at your appointment on the 24th.
I went straight to surgery too, within a month of the colonoscopy. The best advice I can give you at the moment is to try and be as fit and healthy as you can before the surgery as it’ll help you recover much quicker.
In the meantime ask anything you want and stay strong and positive.
Take Care,
Net x
Hi Annie
the brain is a very complicated thing and it plays tricks with you. According Sadhguru ( smart indian Sharma on YouTube ) there are no negative or positive thoughts - just thoughts. You own them, they don’t own you and if you want, you can discard them. Look up literature on General Anxiety Disorder GAD. Quite eye opening
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