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FormerMember
FormerMember
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I have just joined. My husband was diagnosed in July. He had a stoma fitted which he finds difficult to  cope with. He has just finished his chemo and next week has a 9 -12 hour operation. We are scared and the thought of just leaving him to go through this on his own is unbearable. He will be in intensive care for 4 days and then another 2 weeks in hospital.  Just so worried. 

  • Hi Rosey Robin. 
    I just wanted to say hello. You’re both really going through it. You must feel completely drained. I hope that you can visit him  in hospital. My hubby was allowed one hour. But we broke the rules and staff were great. Hope all goes well 

    Ann
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  • Hi ,

    We will be here to support you through this . The only way I could process it was to focus on them being cancer free .

    My mum actually found the staff in intensive care excellent and took such good care of her . It was back when she could have visitors but she was well enough to talk etc . Make sure he has an extended phone charger so you can communicate.

    Take care ,

    Court 

    Helpline Number 0808 808 0000