My partner was diagnosed recently with a stage 3 rectal tumour and is due to have total mesorectal excision and ileostomy on Monday. We were shocked to find it’s at stage 3 but reassured to be told MRI and CT scans are clear and it doesn’t appear to have spread. Quite frankly, I’m terrified at the thought of what is about to happen to him. He doesn’t talk much, and says he’s happy that he has me to lean on. I feel overwhelmed. We have had a lot of support from colorectal nurses, stoma nurses etc but at the moment, I feel I’m living in a state of blind panic but I’m trying hard to stay calm for his sake.
Thank you so much for taking the time to reply.This is still very new and raw for us. He’s just started moviprep and has six bottles of Nutricia pre op to drink also. Hopefully, by this time tomorrow he will be out of theatre
