Can't believe I am here with a cancer diagnosis. It's all happened so quickly since my colonoscopy 2 weeks ago. Had CT scan 3 days afterwards, having MRI scan today & PET scan next Thursday. Already have the first of 4 cycles of chemotherapy arranged to start on April 6th, feels like I am in the middle of a whirlwind. I am 61 & wasn't really having any symptoms & it was picked up through the screening programme. Unfortunately I am only to familiar with cancer as my husband died from liver cancer 7 years ago & my new partner also lost his wife to breast cancer in 2002. Having to go back to the same hospital & departments I know only to well from when my husband was ill makes the stress levels even worse! It seems so unfair that after everything my partner & myself have been through we now have to face this again just when we were making a new happy life together.
So sorry to hear that . That is a lot to process and I totally understand the association you are faced with .
All I can reassure you is bowel cancer is actually really treatable when caught early . In fact my mum was not caught early but is still here 12 years later as it still has lots of options even in late stage diagnosis.
I hope your MRI went ok today and your PET next week . We are certainly here for you to support you through this very difficult stage waiting for a fuller picture and hopefully a good plan .
Please feel free to ask any questions.
Take care ,
Court
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Sorry to hear you are going through this. But it’s good that your treatment is going ahead so quickly, and hopefully they will knock it on the head.
I am also mum to an Ollie. I had recurrent rectal cancer three years ago. I was unlucky to end up with a permanent stoma (escaped without a bag after my first surgery two years earlier) but very lucky that they got all the cancer out in the end and I am able to live a near-normal life. With a colostomy I can irrigate daily and so I just wear a small stoma cap that covers my stoma and can wear normal clothes, do Pilates, dancing, gardening etc without worrying about output. I’m 64 now. My second husband supported me throughout my treatments having lost his first wife to cancer. It’s tough! But he will be there for you.
It must be horrid having to go back to a place where you’ve had a bad experience and I’m wishing you all the very best with your treatment.
Liz xx
I’m so pleased to hear that. This site was so helpful for me when I went through my treatment in 2018. I don’t visit the site so much now, but from where I was at that time it was encouraging to hear that there can be light at the end of the tunnel.
So sorry I can sympathise with you I was diagnosed dec 9th 2020 after eight weeks of tests scans biopsy’s etc. I’m also 61
i had sigmoid colon cancer and it grew out onto my tummy through my mucus fistula I had emergency surgery in 2019 sepsis perfection of the bowel almost died took me five months in hospital and rehabo come back, then bang less than 18 months I’m back with cancer
I had it all removed eight weeks ago and starting chemotherapy 8th April I my mom passed away with same thing nine years ago different hospital thank goodness but I thought at the time god never let me go through this and yet here I am.
Good luck with the chemo
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