Thank you for letting me join this discussion. We have recently discovered that my husband’s birth father died from colon cancer, one year after diagnosis. My husband had stage 2 colon cancer 12 years ago, successfully treated by surgery and chemotherapy. Last year my 41 year old son was diagnosed with Crohn’s disease. The discovery about the grandfather’s cancer only came yesterday. I have 3 sons - two 41 year olds and one 44 year old. With two previous close generations before having had it, I am concerned about the hereditary factor. I am particularly concerned about my son with Crohn’s. Also, I don’t know if this is relevant but my mother, their maternal grandmother, had coeliac disease. Obviously my son with Crohn’s has recently undergone colonoscopies but should all three have screening. I realise they are underage for automatic screening. My husband was 68 when he had it. The grandfather was 78 and died one year after diagnosis. Thank you in advance
Hi Pattiw I’ve attached a link to a page on the bowel cancer uk board and then maybe you could have a chat with your GP?
https://www.bowelcanceruk.org.uk/about-bowel-cancer/risk-factors/family-history/
Hi Kareno62
That makes an interesting read. I'm a 3rd generation sufferer ( my father had bowel cancer and his father died from it) and I also have my paternal great grandfather's death certificate which states "carcinoma of the stomach?" I wonder if the question mark there means that they weren't entirely sure where the cancer was. As I knew from age 35 or thereabouts that my dad had bowel cancer (didn't know about the others till a couple of years ago) I was much more careful about what I ate and how much exercise I took in an effort to reduce my risk - didn't work!
When I was first diagnosed in 2021 I asked both my colorectal surgeon and GP whether my adult children should be tested (they're in their late 30's, early 40's). Both said no, which I admit surprised me.
So, I will pass this article to my son and daughter for them to read. In these circumstances you shouldn't necessarily wait for symptoms to surface. I had no symptoms at diagnosis.
Thanks for adding this link Karen. x
You’re very welcome. Just realised it’s from December 2019 and this may be more up-to-date?
Thank you for sharing your story. As we have only just discovered that my sons’ grandfather died from colon cancer, he died in Canada and his own father died in an accident, we have no knowledge further back than two generations. I am concerned enough though especially having one son with Crohn’s disease, to encourage them to speak to their gps. And thank you Karen for sharing the second link.
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