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Hi WifeandMum 

A big welcome to the forum and hopefully some recovery from your time in Google land . It’s easy to do and I think most of us here learnt the hard way too . But focusing on where you get your information can really help .

Its great your husband has started his first part on treatment and heading onto chemotherapy .

Although incurable I always leant to “ treatable “ when thinking of my mum’s spread and she is now winging her way round to 15 years having just finished another nine months of treatment. 
I never completely went away but it most definitely stayed away for years at a time and she has had lots of wonderful years despite a difficult diagnosis.

Learnt to live through the highs and lows is challenging for her and our family but toe by toe she got there .

They say a stage 4 diagnosis is a marathon not a sprint and I think the best way is to pace yourself too . Keep your own health as a priority too .

Lots of different approaches to treating a spread but they are always there in the background rescanning and adding in other approaches where possible ,

Take care ,

Court 

Information overload from around the world, with profit as the motive for some. Only deal with what you know and don't try to predict the future - no-one can do that with any certainty.

Dulac

Thank you so much. I feel much happier looking at stuff here. Staying positive.