Feeling sad

Hi HazG and I’m sorry to hear your news. No I don’t think it’s because they think you won’t be around for very long but I think they try to shelter us because, in their eyes, we’re ‘going through enough.’ I remember meeting a friend for coffee during my treatment and she was moaning about having a cold and then she apologised because I was ‘going through so much worse.’ I told her that I wanted to be treated normally and have a conversation like we would usually have and not be trying to be over sensitive. 
Im sure people won’t be looking at you any differently at the funeral and I hope you’re able to think about all the wonderful things that your auntie has added to your life

Sending hugs

Karen x

Hi HazG.

I agree with Kareno62 about people feeling we have enough on our plates. And for some they maybe at there limits. But for those of us wanting to still be fully engaged, we may need to just remind them that's what we want (and need!).

I hope you get a chance to wish your aunt well for her next journey, in whatever way is best for you.

Big virtual hug

HazG

Im sorry that your beloved Aunt is dying 

I think families try to protect each other it’s a sign of love.
Also some think if it’s not talked about they don’t have to think about it. That’s my family. Don’t talk it doesn’t exist.

 
Im sending you a hug you’re entitled to have a sad day