Here We Go Again!!

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Trying to watch the TV to forget all about cancer and what do Coronation Street do?? throw it up in your face. Now they think the character Daisy has breast cancer. Just wish the soaps would stop using this topic for storylines they all seem to follow on from one another Emmerdale, Eastenders and now `Corrie` Corrie was the only one you could watch to get away from it with a mix of drama and humour now they're jumping on the bandwagon. Won't be watching any at all soonAngry.

Vicky xx

  • Soaps reflect real life, and cancer affects one in two people, so I think it’s inevitable they’ll cover it. Coronation Street had the story of Daniel’s first wife having cervical cancer when I had just been diagnosed with it and I did find that difficult because she died fairly quickly with it. Definitely tough to watch.

    Sarah xx


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  • Yes, it is all over news, programmes etc once you are triggered to notice it. An unfortunate situation which does ease a little. Sorry can't help, just take it easy, xx

  • Yes it is hard to watch Sarah I think because Ur going through it makes it that  bit harder. I remember the Sinead storyline my sister had just been diagnosed with breast cancer at that time too. Just seems to be all over the TV and I know it depicts real life but the soaps seem to use it a lot just now with EastEnders Lola having a brain tumour thought we'd escaped it with Corrie. Not so it seems.

  • Unfortunately, cancer is part of everyday life. If we haven't been through it, I'm sure that many of us know someone else who has/ is.

    Back in the '60's, the word cancer was a taboo subject. It was whispered amongst families, & never openly talked about. Fortunately today, it is broadcast with honesty & clarity. Yet still, there are those who may be reluctant to visit their GP with troubling symtoms - because they are fearful of what might be.

    Soaps attract mass viewing numbers, & in addition to portraying everyday life - can be informative & educational. They are excellent conduits in getting the message across - that if people present early with symptoms, they have a better chance of survival.

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    Marianne

  • I think it all becomes magnified once we are personally affected by cancer and we see adverts everywhere for it, and take much more notice of it in programmes we watch. I agree that we watch these programmes to take our mind off it, not be faced with sometimes inaccurate portrayals of what it’s like to deal with it! 

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  • Good points Marianne. I remember as a child the whispers, and never calling it cancer, always “the big c”. My cousin had leukaemia and the family wouldn’t even tell him, even though my dad offered to do it. It was kept secret and he died not knowing why he was in hospital. I’m glad we have moved on from those days. The power of soaps and also reality tv was noticeable after Jade Goody’s death with the uptake in testing and there can be good things come from getting the message across. 

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  • Yes that's true Sarah!

    I never even knew that my mum died from bowel cancer 26 years ago and just found out from my sister a couple of years ago after my dad passed. My dad never even told my sister and I what she died with but he eventually told my sister. I think he thought he was `shielding` us both from telling us that. 

  • I think everyone was scared of the cancer word in those days as outcomes were often different then, and they probably wanted to protect others, especially children from everything. I’m glad things are more openly spoken about nowadays which can remove a lot of the fear around cancer and treatment.

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  • It's not just soaps, though. I was not so sensitive to it before I had my own diagnosis, but since then, I have seen references to it every single day. On TV, in films, in books. On radios. On posters. It is scary how ubiquitous it is. And yes, it does have an impact on so many people that it is not necessarily a surprise it is out there, but sometimes I think it would be nice if cancer was not the go to illness of choice for almost every fictional storyline. Because it so often feels like this is exactly what it is. It really does get to me, sometimes. It is strange how very sensitive to noticing it we become after diagnosis. The actual quantity of cancer references has not changed. We just notice it a lot more!

    Robin

  • It's an interesting subject. Personally, since my diagnosis in '19, I haven't noticed any rise in Cancer portrayal - probably because I don't watch Soaps, & the books I read are mostly fictional anyway. When I've heard references to it - it has mainly been obliquely on the news, but I rarely have taken much notice of it.

    Personally, I think that any upfront material that is televised or recorded, particularly with references to new material is the best outcome.

    Bring on the researches into this awful disease! & let everyone know that it is treatable - if caught early.

    I'd prefer to hear more, rather than less!