Pregnancy news

Hi 

Wow. Congratulations.  I can fully understand your concerns. Once you’ve processed your news I hope that you will enjoy Christmas and planning for your new arrival in the new year. 
sending you a hug x

congratulations to you both x

Oh congratulations. However it’s also a vulnerable time when you are pregnant and especially when your husband has had a difficult journey medically .

Why not give out helpline staff a call 0808 808 0000 when you have a private moment. They may be able to get some support for you . 

I am always here if you ever want to PM me . These are legitimate concerns . Children pull us forward in life even in difficult circumstances but to have fear and concerns regarding how that would impact your own life is entirely reasonable . No judgements just lots of love and understanding.

Court 

Thank you xx

Thank you court I really appreciate that. Won’t be phoning them as it’s so difficult to communicate with them via text relay as I am deaf. But I think I will be ok for time being as I have to stay positive. I need to… I’m strong enough to handle whatever throws at us in life… main thing Liam is doing well right now, not receiving any treatments, been NED since July 2021’s op. So going to hang onto that and hope it continues as long as he can. Yes you’re right - it helps me, I don’t know where I would be if it wasn’t for my two boys. Hope your mum is doing well. Take care twinkles 

Thank you x

Hi Twinkles07

You're welcome. I know what it’s like to have a surprise baby.  It happened to me obviously very different circumstances as she’s now 39. 
She’s named Abigail,  I liked the name because she could choose from the two  Abbie and Gail.  She chose Abi. What a blessing she is. 
I wish you all the joy that a new baby can bring. 
Can you get lots of support from your family?

They can be an amazing support

I hope you are feeling okay.

Take care 

I can totally understand your mixed emotions of anxiety and excitement ....  and i think very sensible thoughts 

I think EVERYONE on this board will be holding our breath and praying for a clear scan dec 8th.... what lovely news and the fact that  Liam is thriving and almost at 2 years NED is extremely hopeful.  My onc told me if you can get through the first 2 years that is when you can start to relax and at 5 yrs Bowel cancer is highly unlikely to ever return.... hopefully the 'late stage 3'  diagnosis in hindsight was the more accurate one (rather than stage 4) and  you both can keep looking forwards to a long and healthy future with a growing family  ... maybe you should call the baby 'Ned'  ;). 

I think Sharon Osbourne was a late stage 3 Dx and look at her almost 15- 20 years on

Parky xx