My mum can't have the operation

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Well we decided for my mum to go for the bowel cancer operation, and was pencilled in for tomorrow after it being cancelled in December.. then she had to go for more tests and the consultant wanted a second opinion today we had that and they aren't going to do the operation.. mum has copd and the risk of her not coming through are to high. They can't tell us how long she will live but it hasn't spread to her liver or kidneys yet.. we was hoping it could be removed but unfortunately not.. so we will make the most of the time and make lots of memories 

  • So sorry to hear that . Would it be worth getting another opinion?

    Onwards and flatwards (don't do hills) and keep walking if you can!

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    Former Member in reply to seaspirit44

    Hi seaspirit we've had a second opinion today and he was honest with us from the start.. we will make what time we have Happy ones x

  • Hi 

    Sorry to hear that . I think we all know there is a tipping point where it is just not possible and you have ensured that her needs have been fully assessed and you know deep In your heart you have exhausted all options and this is the correct pathway forward for her to take that that’s important. 
    Now to surround her with your love .

    She is very fortunate to have such a caring daughter .

    Thinking of you both .

    Court 

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    Hi , sorry to hear that but it sounds like this is the best way forward. Are they offering your mum any treatment options at all? I hear that radiotherapy can be offered to ppl who aren't fit enough for surgery or a low dose chemo regime. 

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    Former Member in reply to court

    Thank you court.. yes she's had all the test, her heart is strong it's just the copd..we will do and make lots of memories.. hope you are keeping well x

  • Former Member
    Former Member in reply to Former Member

    Hi ljp, no they aren't going to do any other treatment. They have said just make the most of how long she has and have lots of family time. Thank you for your reply

  • Keeping fine thanks . I will be thinking of your family . Stay in touch .

    Court 

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    Former Member in reply to court

    Thanks court will do x