Update!

Hi Twinkles07Aww that is such good news - I bet you can’t wait for the big day now. 
I had a Low Anterior Section with open surgery and was told 5 weeks recovery although keyhole can be as little as 3 but as you’ve said everyone is different. I was told not to lift anything heavier than a kettle of water with enough for 1 cup in and no driving until you can safely perform an emergency stop. Looks like you might have to carry him over the threshold then!

Cancer messes with your head as well as your body and it’s normal for moods to be all over the place - the worry of the op, relief that it’s over, anxious wait for results, frustration at what you can and can’t do afterwards, excitement about the wedding………Hang on in there and look forward to the wedding - it’s a lovely thing to have had to focus on after everything you’ve been through as a family

Have a fabulous day and let us know how it all goes

Take care

Karen x

Oh the best of news . So delighted for you both ! Now for the good times .

I agree with Karen . By three weeks my mum was doing great with keyhole but took a full six weeks with open surgery . 
Take care and enjoy this next part . You deserve it !

Court 

Only eight days to the wedding . I am getting excited for you both ! 

I meant to say the surgeon has some sense of humour ! Best gift he could ever give you !

Take care ,

Court 

Thank you court.

 Absolutely yes! Definitely - having a good sense of humour does help! 

now we are looking forward to our big day and I will send a photo but you need to tell Me how to do it? As me and technology or online Don’t agree well ha ha! 

Xx

I will look forward to seeing it . If you are using a phone or iPad you just go to the box you reply in . Below is the word paragraph then six little boxes . If you go to the one with the mountain oit   That’s the photo box . It gives you the option of adding from your devise and you simple select size . I always go for small ! It uploads easier ! Then “ Done” . That’s it . It’s quite easy . Y could practice first ! .

I am rubbish with that sort of thing but this is quite easy . If that fails Grab a teenager . They always seem to know ! 

Take care ,

Court 

Great! I’ll give that a go… no I would rather to try do it myself as my teenager son has this kind of habit with taking the mick out of me! But if push comes to shove I’ll have to put my pride aside and ask for his help

Thank you Karen. 
today has been a good day as Liam finally able to give our 5 months old a cuddle and enjoyed his cry up this morning (I don’t do fry ups at all) but it’s a real treat. 

we are finally looking forward to tie the knot without worrying. But you’re absolutely right, cancer does mess our heads but it’s up to us not to allow it. And I’m most certainly won’t let it ruin us! No matter how hard it is! 

will send a photo of us once we’re married.

hope you’re keeping well too xx

Teenagers , don’t you just love them ! I only have one left in their teens but they enjoy having a joke at my expense too ! I keep sending them that Instagram post about not laughing at me over technology as I once taught them to hold a spoon !

However I do adore them .

Have a great day .

Court