Hi all
after what feels like forever, I have a meeting this Thursday with my surgeon. I’m keeping my fingers crossed that I will now get a date for my surgery! Can anyone suggest what I should ask, or what sort of thing I should expect? Excited and scared in equal measures.
Excellent news . Your final step to getting through surgery and putting this all firmly behind you .
I guess you could ask about the recovery process , pain meds , duration of stay etc . More about the surgical procedure itself and and complications they might encounter and how they manage them . Some hospitals use a fast track discharge program so you might want to find out about that .
They are normally really good at going over everything with you ?
Are you having a stoma ? If so is great with what to ask regarding that area .
Hope it all goes well and I am sure they will have lots of information for you ,
take care ,
Court
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Hi Jools63
Good news now you can see the light at the end of the tunnel of course you will have many questions and hope these will help
What questions should I ask before signing the consent form?
It is important that you understand what will happen and why, and you should be given a chance to ask questions. To help you think about what you want to ask your doctor, you may find the following questions helpful:
About the operation
About the anaesthetic
About my stay in hospital
Who do I contact if I have any questions before my surgery?
Get
Some of the above may not be appropriate to you but these are the questions that consultants are used to answering so please cherry pick the ones best suited to you.
If you don't understand ask for clarification in terms you can understand.
Take someone with you as a note taker, you won't remember everything afterwards.
We'll be here for you to fill in any blanks from now onwards, please ask us anything we've all been there.
Good luck on Thursday, let us know how you get on and keep in touch with us.
Ian
Thank you so much for your response. I’m freaking out now. I’ve been in a lot of pain for the last 3 days. It’s so hard to understand why the treatment so far has made me ill, when the cancer wasn’t.
That’s a tough one for sure . My mum was without any symptoms prior to diagnosis and picked up on a screen . Started treatment and was so ill I thought it was the disease advancing . She stopped treatment and after a period of time felt great again . You would not believe how a small pill can impact your entire body.
take care ,
Court
Helpline Number 0808 808 0000
Good morning!
I’m at the hospital awaiting a stent as I have a problem! My tumour has shrunk really well so I’m relieved. If the stent can’t be done I’ll be having my full surgery today. Slightly apprehensive, but grateful to be getting such great care.
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