GOOD NEWS UPDATE - ten weeks since operation, 3 weeks in hospital, 5 weeks on the vacuum dressing machine as I was one of the 30% of people whose wounds do not heal. I'm now driving, walking up to 3 miles (I'm a walker), just started doing careful yoga yesterday and gardening. Living on my own its very difficult not to risk lifting things but I've managed with help but always worrying about herniating. I have dressings changed 3 x week at GP surgery after 21 visits by community nurses over 5 weeks. I'm 71 and apart from controlled hypertension, I don't have other major health issues. TOP TIP: Check your protein intake. After abysmal food in hospital (vegetarian with bowel cancer related onion intolerance, mashed potato dinner anyone?)) I research how much protein I needed, which is based on your weight/height etc. I rose to the challenge of 100g protein a day - the community nurses put my eventual quick recovery down to this. They said they visit people who live on Mr Kipling and they just don't heal. Protein builds muscle and that's what you need to grow the cavity left by the op from the inside. It's true to say the first six weeks are the worst, or they were for me. Now I don't take turning over in bed, or sitting at a table to eat, or sitting on the sofa with my feet up for granted EVER ! Plus its Spring. So good luck to any APR op peeps out there.
Thank you so much for sharing this. I have a 75% change of having to have this op later this year, and have many concerns. You have given me hope that with determination and positive attitude all is possible. Well done you. From a fellow walker who was diagnosed with Polymyositis last year, prior to the bowel cancer being discovered, and who misses the freedom that walking brings. We live in hope!
Hi there RTD sorry to hear you may have to go through this but 70% of people leave hospital after 6 days or do I was just unlucky. But I’m fine now and just back from a personal best if 4.75 miles :between GP surgery dressing change and ear syringing somewhere else - caused by lying on side for 6 weeks ! Good luck xx PS a friend had radiotherapy and didn’t need the op - I did as mine was a “recurrence” ie rectal cancer in same place as 2021.
Apparently (more than one medic told me) the radiotherapy keeps on working and shrinking the tumour for many weeks - up to about 3 months. Of course everyone’s treatment is different ! No picnic is it ! One of the worst things I’ve ever been through - my friend had a temp ileostomy prior to radio to help but it was still awful for her as target was soooo low. I’m digging the garden now and walked 4 miles this am between GP surgery and ear syringe place - side lying six weeks filled my right ear with wax …,,,
Hi well done I'm 9 weeks post surgery but couldn't even think about driving.I can ealk most days but still having wounds dressed every day ,it's the middle one that is taking longer and can't sit for long so feel it's going to take a lot longer
Well done you - 4 months on (end May) I was signed off for swimming last Friday and a bath ! But still weekly checks local surgery. Lots of protein helped me but I’m a vegetarian so it was very important. Protein builds the muscle you need to heal the cavity from the inside out. Did you have the vacuum dressing machine ? My Registrar felt that really does speed things up - although 5 weeks on it 24/7 was no picnic ! Read loads of books even Chekov ! Get well soon xx
Hi ive not heard of the vacuum dressing I just have the nurse every day they day it's healing but I still find sitting uncomfortable and I can't read as I have to lay on my side.Ive got to be patient and increase my protein
Thanks xx
It’s prob too late now in any case : it’s a machine that helps the wound come together whilst removing the “excudate” aka gunge which is collected in a reservoir - charged overnight so you’re plugged in …. One hour process to change dressing/empty reservoir every 3 days. All supervised by a Tissue Viability Team - not every HA has a team like that. You carry the machine like a shoulder bag 24/7. sounds like you’re nearly there - side lying is exhausting. Have a look at high protein yoghurts/cottage cheese - I aimed for 100g protein a day - looking up protein content of foods.
PS ! The other invaluable thing was a VALLEY CUSHION - this was provided free of charge by my stoma supply company (RapidCare) its two inflatable cushions with a valley in the middle so it doesn’t stretch the perineum which is last thing you need. This is why doughnut circular cushions are harmful in this situation. You can buy Valley Cushions but quite pricey. Ask your nurse if you Havnt already got one - it was such a relief sitting for meals when I was side lying the rest of the time.
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