Husband, Chemoradiotherapy & Me (Pt 3)

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Good Evening All. 
Hope everyone is being as good as they can be? 

wow! It’s been really cold hasn’t it? 

So Mark has had his first Chemo session..

we arrived at the hospital in good time for his appointment, he was very worried, and fidgety ( like a child, couldn’t keep still) 

There were a fair few people waiting, lots of activity but no one calling any names out. We sat and waited and then the Sister came called a name and apologised that there was an hr and half wait! 

Mark wasn’t happy! 

eventually his name was called and we walked in to a room with six comfortable chairs, one was empty, that was going to be marks, he got sat down and the nurse came over asked him some questions and checked a few things explained what was going to happen. 
He looked at me with very worried eyes. I smiled. 

Anti sickness pill was the first, followed by a big bag of saline , then a pouch of steroids then the first chemo, they told him if he felt strange in any way he had to tell them. 
about 10 mins in, he started to go red, I asked if he was ok and he wait his neck was all sweaty and the nurse heard him, so he had to have a “bee sting”Bee injection, and he will have that every time now. 
after that he was ok. 
once that chemo had finished , it was another saline to flush and then the chemo that took 2 hrs, plus calipol (think that is what it was called) which he needed as that helps the chemo in the pump (which he has at home for 46 hrs) 

All finished, we arrived at 12, for a 12.30 appointment and we got home at 7.30pm. It was a long day. 
Home with the pump, Mark was really worried about this one, as this is the one with side affects of a heart attack Flushed 

We didnt sleep much at all that night, I was worried I was going to touch it, Mark was worried he was going to pull it out! 

Day after, I got up and went to work, told him if he needed me to just ring ( being the boss I can leave!) I messaged him through the day and he said he was just tired still in bed, when I got home he was on the sofa, he hasn’t eaten much all day so I made him some soup. 
The only side affects he said he felt was when he emptied the dishwasher, when he touched a plate his fingers has like pins and needles. So, so far he’s doing really well. He feels tired. 
He has stopped his two days of steroids and Anti sickness. ( But has some if he needs to take any) 

Just waiting for the nurse to come and remove the pump! 

Thank you for reading. 

lots of love Heart️ 

C xx 

  • That’s a great post  and will be so helpful to others in a similar situation. Hope things continue to go well for Mark and the next session isn’t delayed as long

    Take care

    Karen x

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  • What a great story. This will help others who want to know what to expect.

    That pins and needles feeling is probably the cold sensitivity. I had to switch to plastic silverware because metal stuff was hard to touch. Get some gloves, they help a lot. 

  • Your husbands story is nearly the same as my hubbys chemo you write it so well 

    hope he’s doing ok mines had 9 lots up to now with 3 to go before his next scan 

  • Good Evening Soo7, 

    Thank you for your reply, How is your Hisband doing? Mark is having a rough day, he has said his tummy feels like concrete, so uncomfortable, he took an anit sickness pill but it didn’t do anything! 
    he’s a little worried x 

    He has spent most of today (Sunday) laid on sofa in and out of sleep. 

    How are you coping? I feel like I have a few faces.. 

    1. smile and say everything is ok when anyone asks. 

    2. smile and say to Mark. You’ve got this.. 

    3. shower time, no smiles , just tears!

    Mark has his next Chemo on his birthday 22nd x

    Really hope your hubby gets on ok xx

    lots of love

    Cheryl Heart

  • I’m exactly the same definitely tears in the shower

    Hes doing ok it takes him a few days to get over the chemo and then his stomach is uncomfortable He’s had pain in his bowel since being diagnosed as he had a tumour there so gets that as well 

    He doesn’t get much sickness just a lot of burping and acid 

    hope your husband is feeling better today 

    Soo xx

  • Dear Cheryl 

    Thank you for your post was thinking about how your husband had got on with the treatment and pump.

    Unfortunately running late on appointments is a regular thing for me as well - usually an hour but has been two hours longest wait! I find it a long day too.

    The concrete feeling could be constipation I suffer badly with it after treatment so take medication from the day before to ease it. Tiredness yes very much so.

    It's my birthday today and I have treatment tomorrow !

    Finally not sure if this will help or frighten but my treatment tomorrow is number 54 

    Caroline 

  • Happy Birthday hope you have a lovely day 

    yes my husband is the same takes a special drink twice a day for constipation 

    That’s a lot of treatments my husbands on number 9 xx