Experience of Hospital stay following surgery.

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My Hemicolectomy was in May '19, following Bowel Cancer diagnosis a month before. I stayed in hospital for 4 days. Should have been 3, but I had no one to pick me up.

I woke from surgery with a drip of Fentanyl for the first day, which was reduced to 3 paracetamol Tabs - every few hours, which I rarely took, as the pain lessened. I felt very comfortable during the day - as the nurses were just so lovely.

However, at night, it became something of a nightmare scenario. I was in a ward of 8 other women, with varying problems. The nurses' station was just outside the ward, was brightly lit, & the noise all night was horrendous - laughing & giggling. Then, dealing with a very confused patient on my ward.....shouting on both sides. I remember asking for help, when I went to the loo, pushing my drips. When I got back to my bed, I forgot which porthole the tubes went in. I asked for help, & the nurse told me to do it for myself!

To be honest, I became scared of the nights on the ward. I witnessed other occasions. No one should be subjected to feeling vulnerable after major surgery. But I did at my hospital.

Marianne 26

  • You had a terrible experience which after your surgery is not acceptable 

    Have you put in a complaint?

    Mine was the opposite although they were busy they made time to help me. Well most did. There was one that needed retraining but you expect a small amount of that attitude. 

    Im sorry that you had such an awful time 

    Ann
     ‍Art

  • Hi Marianne, I am so sorry to hear this.  Unfortunately in life as we know it is hit and miss who we meet in life and who gets to serve us at the counter can make or break our days.  I have my hemicolectomy op booked for 10 Feb so looking forward to getting this done and dusted.  I have been luck so far with the nurses and staff, so keeping my fingers crossed.  How are you getting on anyway? has this made a difference to your quality of life? xxx Carol

  • No, I didn't put in a complaint. This was my first time having major surgery. When you are on drips of Fentanyl, which make you feel out of a world experience, you don't really feel 'real,' It was only when I got home, that I realised that there are really good nurses, & perhaps not so good ones. When you are so 'out of it with administered drugs' you can't speak up for yourself. You just hope that you will be cared for by someone kind. - which I was, but only daytime.

    Marianne 26

     

  • Hi Blondebanana 

    I had an en-suite and twenty four hour care. It’s unusual when you’ve had a long surgery and have drips and meds  It’s a rehab and as soon as I was up I kept going and out in Five days when they thought ten 

    Where are you based? 

    Ann
     ‍Art

  • Night times can be tricky I’ve had a few not so good nights with my other stays after the LAR. I had a reversal. which was terrible but only over night. Then a blockage which didn’t have enough night staff to cope. It wasn’t their fault 

    You could put in a complaint now. It may give them chance to clear any nightstaffing issues

    I think nights are the worst. 

    Ann
     ‍Art

  • i'm so sorry Marianne, I was a health care assistant for 12 years,, and I often witnessed things that made me sad, and I always said to myself if I ever , ever begin to feel negatively about patients and my job I will leave., because we all deserve kindness first everyone deserves that and respect.  I left before that happened , but I do know what happens and goes on, I just say to myself we are all human , but when we are so vulnerable it is hard x thank you for sharing your experience x this must still hurt you now and I totally understand.  I think you are amazingxxx

  • Oh crikey, without a doubt as to quality of life. So far, after 3 years, I am in remission from cancer. All my experiences with nurses, doctors, Oncologist, Surgeon, & my colorectal team throughout my journey, have been wonderful! It was just the night stay in my hospital for a few days that were a bit difficult. But thankfully, it was a short stay.

    Marianne x

  • & wishing you the very best of xx

  • yes but it's still there, those feelingsxx I try to say to myself when people are not so kind to me or whatever,, that maybe they are not well themselves or struggling.  I know I have made many many mistakes and done some not so kind things not bad but not helpful, ..cancer has made me really look at myself and I am learning every day and blessed , and not to take everything to heart lol I have always done that ! but now i'm more chilled and 'whatever' what on earth can hurt me now! lolxxx 

  • hi Artsie, I am in Brighton East Sussex xx