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You send him our best wishes . I think adrenaline carries you so far then reality kicks in . My mum had what I now refer to a healthy dose of denial . It carried her where she needed to go . It’s a horrible word and I do remember one post op meeting the surgeon said he would keep an eye on her lungs and liver for mets and I honestly had to fight to stay upright .

I have no idea how many liver mets my mum had the second time as the surgeon kindly said he found what he was expecting “cancer” , instantly I knew it would do no one any good at that point to know more so we let it slide . I know she had five going in . At that stage I comforted myself in he was a good surgeon who had potentially eliminated it with his tool kit and I held onto that thought .

You just don’t know at what point in the process something gets triggered . My mum’s very wise surgeon said around the two year mark of active treatment even those with the most robust defences tire a bit and I noticed that in mum , if I am truthful in me too.

However it did not stay that way . We all put it behind when she started making good progress .

Hope your doing ok yourself . It’s not easy is it !

However it’s time for you both to focus on recovery and if it takes time , it takes time . 
Always here for you ,

Court 

court Thank you Court...your kind words are very much appreciated...xx