Good Evening All,
I’m not new here, but haven’t ever posted before.
Bit of background, my 33 year old sister was diagnosed with stage 4 bowel cancer in Aug 2020 when her baby was 9 weeks old. At the time they found a 5cm bowel tumour and 2 very small mets in the liver.
She had a stoma fitted in sept 2020 and the she had 4 rounds of chemo followed by 5 days of radiotherapy on the Bowel, and we were then told that the bowel tumour had had a complete response and was “no longer radiologically apparent” but that the liver mets had increased from 2 to 5 (still all very small, 1cm of less)
Tomorrow she is going in for a liver resection and frankly we are all terrified.
Has anyone had similar and can give me any reassurance? I’m not 100% sure what I’m here for but to say this has been a difficult time would be the understatement of the century.
Thank you in advance for your replies
Maisie xx
Hi
The night before surgery can be tough but let me reassure you a little . The liver units are highly specialised centres of clinical excellence. The High dependency units are staffed by nurses who are excellent and again very skilled in their field . The surgeons generally work with dedicated anaesthetists and theatre staff who work together weekly ! They do this frequently.
The very tool the surgeon carries out the resection with sears as it cuts . It’s very specialised and they take exceptionally good care of them .
One surgeon advised me to consider the additional mets as all part of the original spread and just revealing itself . Despite that being upsetting it’s better to know where it is so it can be resected when the surgeon is in there .
My mum originally had four wedge resections and the following year she had a referral to a centre of excellence they removed 73% of her liver . The great thing about the liver is the speed it regenerates . My mum has an odd shaped liver but it has worked well for her and that’s ten years after her resection .
Hope it’s given you a little lift tonight . Your sister is so young to be going through this and I I’ll be thinking of her tomorrow.
Think of her on her journey to being cancer free and it sounds as though she is going to have a great team surrounding her to help her with her recovery.
But this is all tough to go through and to watch someone you care for too!
Better days ahead !
Court
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